Id love to meet with someone who enjoys playing with chastity, toys, and femininity.

I am amab gender questioning human who is loving being controlled by others and moulded into new and wonderful depths of submission.

I’m interested in forced mantras, holding positions, speech tasks, and people choosing what I watch (hypnosis, conditioning, confusion gets priority). To enable this i have a range of toys including Estim, fuck machine, vibes, and a Wi-Fi padlock/key safe!

Ideally I’d like to pull the femme aspects of me out a little more and push down on the masculine. This can be soft but I actually rather a firmer approach and style when playing with others.

My biggest kink is honestly making others happy. It I like to do it though some some suffering and cost to myself.

I like control. In all its forms. Mental. Physical. Spiritual. Ritual. This can take many forms and it’s fun to play with small details as much as grand statements. This is why I like toys and chastity Because both are enabling this control. I don’t need my life controlling. I have my self together ☺️. But I do enjoy controlling touches.

I love emotional play. Fear and uncertainty to be specific. Which is why I gravitate towards those on the harsher end of domination. This can take to form of pain, discomfort, threats, or inevitability. I also like to feel used and abused. Valueless but not worthless. Sort of like a beloved pair of trainers. This is where humiliation and degrading come in.

I am looking for someone rougher but sane. Cruel but loving. A “just a bit more” type. Someone who understands what they like and doesn’t mind taking it. I’m not looking for a gentle Domme nor a Mommy type. You’re lovely but it’s not what drives me wild.

In the end it would be fabulous if you were satisfied and rolling around in laughter while I remain frustrated and perhaps sore in many ways.

This connection could be a on off thing or last forever. That’s up to you. Happy to connect in a range of different ways. Happy to be tasked and have my limits tested. Happy for you to control my Grinder. I’m very comfortable with my safe words and am a strong. Communicator.

Sensible limits to be agreed.

Hugs for now xxx