Hi there! Thanks for reading my ad, you can call me S :)

What I'm looking for:

I'm a fairly experienced domme, but almost all of that experience has involved pouring my time and energy into other people. I live for a good dynamic, but ultimately connections like that are ephemeral, and one of my new years resolutions is to spend more time building things I can actually show other people.

So, to that end, I am looking for a creative partner. That could take the form of a service dynamic, or fwb collaborators, or even another domme who wants to exchange concrit. The important part is having compatible tastes and genuinely liking each others work (assuming you also make something - not mandatory, but I think that arrangement would make a lot of sense). I'm looking for a balance between positivity and realistic, constructive feedback - I'm pretty hard on myself already so I don't need someone to rip me to shreds, but someone who can engage critically with my concerns, and whose judgement I can trust would be invaluable.

I'm also looking for someone with a compatible approach to to femdom - basically, if you vibe with the concept of femdom as a deconstruction of gender roles and something of a counterculture within kink, and if being a domme/sub is Big Gender for you, we'll probably get along. If there's nothing at all about your relationship to gender, kink, or sex, that would take you more than a paragraph to explain, we probably won't get along.

Specific Approach:

Projects I'd specifically like to work on include some femdom audios, short erotic stories, maybe non-face nudes or video, but that's not a priority for me. I also have some totally sfw projects already in progress that we could start out with if that's more comfortable.

Depending on who you are and what you're looking to get out of this, the actual structure of the relationship could be as simple as doing sprints or coworking calls sometimes, trading work for concrit, and cheerleading for each other as equals.

Or, if you want something a bit less equal and more service-y, you could provide body doubling, entertainment, and feedback for me as requested, and I could set you tasks to either assist me in making my own stuff, or for you to produce specific things to my taste. What those might be is is up to your comfort levels, but lewds and short audios come to mind as classic options that are also useful to add to your submissive 'portfolio'. Since in this case we would be engaging in a power dynamic, I wouldn't jump into giving you tasks on day one, we'd need to get to know each other a bit and talk through expectations first.

About me and Ending Notes:

So! I realize that this is a pretty kink focused ad on a kink dating forum, but I am somewhere on the ace spectrum and I would really appreciate it if you didn't come out of the gate hitting on me and/or asking for sex. I am looking for a respectful, friendly connection first, while we get to know each other. To help you relate to me as a human being, here are some details about my life outside of kink: I am a huge nerd and love star trek, I love to bake but am kind of a gremlin that lives off crackers and cheese instead of cooking regularly, I'm currently teaching myself to knit and working on a fluffy purple scarf, the last audiobook I listened to was Powers That Be by Ann McCaffrey (throwback to my childhood reading habits), and the last show I binged was Dune: Prophecy.

I would love to know some similar background info about you, plus your age, gender, kink role, and what appealed to you about my ad :)

I'm happy to swap (neck down, on my end) photos and voice clips within the first few messages, but equally happy to skip that indefinitely. Fair warning, I am a BBW, and I have no strong preferences size wise for a partner, so you being "fit" is not a big deal to me, but the implied put down to bigger men is. Basically, don't be a fatphobic or transphobic asshole in my dms and we'll get along fine.