I'm looking to meet a guy for a committed IRL relationship with the potential to explore submission and denial. I'm looking for love and a relationship, I'm not in a rush and happy to wait to find the right relationship.

I'm passionate about volunteering and making a difference in my community and standing up for the rights of minority groups, I volunteer with local Pride Parades and events, I host a Ukrainian refugee in my home and help with other refugee charities, I campaign for peace and a ceasefire in Gaza, I work as a scientist trying to drive positive changes, and I volunteer on my local parish council. I have changed to a pescatarian diet to reduce my environmental impact and try to live sustainably. These things are really important to me and so I'm looking to date someone with similar values and priorities.

DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU LIVE IN ANOTHER COUNTRY, or if you are just looking for a fantasy or just chatting online, or if you are married.

Vetting process:

-you must prove you live in my area and be genuine

-you must be willing to meet within 1 week of messaging

-you must be ok with not discussing kink in-depth before meeting (A few basic questions to determine potential compatibility are acceptable).

-DO NOT ADDRESS ME AS MISTRESS or any other BS. I expect you to be respectful. I'm not an object or a fantasy, I'm a person.

I'm looking for a long-term relationship in real life with someone slim, who is around my age and lives in my area. Ideally open to a loving commited polyamorous relationship (you would also be welcome to have other meaningful relationships).

For me, it's also equally important to find a partner who is also compatible with me in their personality and ethics, as volunteering and opening my home to refugees is really important to me, as well as campaigning for peace and avoiding the negative impacts of consumerism. Just living a life focused on building community and supportive others to make a difference in the world.

Myself: I'm a very physically affectionate and loving woman, I'm slim, blonde, blue eyes, 162cm / 5'6, 52kg/8 stone.

Vanilla interests include: socialism (similar politics to Bernie Sanders), volunteering, reading, learning languages, games and board games, sustainability, anti-war/pro-ceasefire.

If you think we might be compatible then let me know!