Please don't message me if you're primarily or only interested in the kink aspect of this possible connection! While I'm looking for a life partner in the long run, I want to start as friends and only continue further if it's something we both feel is right.

Things I find gravitated towards:

Some traits/things I find myself attracted to (but are not necessarily requirements) are: selective kindness (being more gentle or kind with me than to others), emotional stability, emotional intelligence, humility or at least somewhat being open-minded (I hate egoists), and an affectionate/supportive mindset.

For physical appearance (and these aren't requirements either), height typically isn't of importance, but I find myself typically attracted to average/slimmer body shapes, and to be frank, lighter skin tones. (I'm not racist, I can't really control my preferences)

Some info about me:

Physical: Half Chinese half Viet 5'11'', black hair generally medium length, sometimes gets long (for a guy) I have dark brown eyes, glasses, with an average weight profile with an ever so slightly lean towards chubby more than skinny.

Personality: I think if you wanted to oversimplify my personality, I'd say I'm like a loyal, affectionate, energetic, but insecure puppy. But that's an oversimplification, there's a lot of peculiar things about me. I'm an ESFP if that helps. I'd like to think that I'm a relatively kind and understanding person, and I try to have good intent when it comes to life, but everyone is capable of both good and evil, and I am no exception. I generally give off soft boy vibes but I try not to be a pushover. generally super soft, empathetic, and caring. when i get excited about things, i tend to get loud/hyper without realizing it (it's something i'm somewhat insecure of) i'm a very understanding person sometimes to a fault. generally i'm on the lower end of self-esteem/confidence, but I actively attend therapy which has helped me come a long way. While I wouldn't consider myself emotionally unstable, I do think it's important to note that I'm relatively feminine for a guy and I am more prone to mood swings than most guys are.

Hobbies/interests: I'll keep this relatively short and you can find out more by talking to me, but generally some things I find myself enjoying are games (I've played too many to count and I'm open to new genres but generally all of my favorite games have been 1. multiplayer and 2. team-based, with some exceptions im sure), I enjoy anime (some of my favorite genres are: fantasy, romance, slice of life, action), tech-related hobbies / pc peripherals (real nerd shit). I also take interest in things like fashion/anything self expression.

Kink/Femdom part: I do have a lean towards gentle femdom, but I still very much enjoy typical femdom. My main love languages are probably words of affirmation and quality time to give you an idea of me (with physical touch probably coming in third). i do NOT like anything extreme or humiliation/degradation related and I'm not looking for a power dynamic or any full control type of relationship, I'm not entirely opposed to experimenting but generally our value and how we both view each other should be equal.

Thank you for reading all of this, if you have any questions about anything at all please don't hesitate to message me! Even the questions you might think are "weird" I promise I won't think they are. Regardless whether it's me or not, I hope you have a lovely rest of your day and good luck on your search.