About me

I'm a married 39 year old man in a dead bedroom vanilla relationship with my wife of 10 years. Now before you judge me and get ready to cast stones, please read this completely. Before my marriage I have been in several D/s relationships. Even though being a submissive in a relationship is at the core of who Iam and what I would like, I got into a vanilla marriage and now truly miss being in a D/s dynamic. I'm financially stable (earn seven figures), have a PhD, grew up in multiple countries, bisexual, patient, understanding, liberal, non-religious but spiritual, clean habits, love music/art/movies/books, enjoy being bottom and wearing chastity. Physically I'm 5 8", fit, brown skinned, dark features, wears glasses, have a thick hair :)

I desire romance, love, never ending deep desire for each other. Everything in an ideal D/s relationship comes from a place of love and nurturing. You discipline me because you love me, you turn me into an object because you love me, you keep me bound because you love me, you micromanage me because you love me. I romance you because I'd love you, I'd worship you because I love you.

What I'm looking for:

A dominant woman who would like to be desired, enjoy service oriented submission and be the center of my universe. You maybe married and discreet, poly or just single. But you want to be a Domme, owner, Goddess and nurturing partner, the leader in the relationship you're in the right place. I desire a relationship where we are not equals and my partner is clearly the superior one and person in complete authority over me.

In an ideal relationship I would be worshipping my partner as my Goddess, praying to her, worshipping her ritually, treating her as my deity, accepting my place as her creation to completely surrender and devoting my life to her. Finding spiritual fulfillment and meaning to life in only serving her, being hers and serving her. Ultimately I care about your well being, supporting you and making your dreams come true.

Kinks I'm into

• Foot worship, body worship, heel worship, giving foot/body massages
• Worshipping your pussy and ass
• Domestic service for you including cleaning, laundry, cooking and chores
• Collars and leashes Humiliation, degradation & psychological play
• Mind control, obedience training
• Being kept in chastity and/or having all my orgasms controlled
• Controlled bisexuality
• Being pegged, butt plugs, assplay and strapons on me
• Lots of foreplay, kissing n cuddling on a regular basis
• PIV (penis in vagina) sex in amazon sex position or vanilla missionary style.
• Being collared, tattooed in the context of a LTR Being a butler/maid Being slapped, spanked, choked, flogged, hair pulled, being spit on or into Being cuffed, bound and/or sensory deprivation Pet training

Limits

• Not into findom or anything involving me sending you money (scammers stay away!!).
• For this to work you'll ideally have to be in or travel to Washington or California.
• No long term damage or injury.
• Extreme pain , anything illegal or unhealthy
• Anything that reveals our private life
• Me being dominant

Would love to chat if this piqued your interest.