Hi,

I’ve been dating over the last few years and have come to terms with my need for a dynamic in my lifelong relationships—something out of the ordinary. So this may be a little out of pocket for the childfree (I am child free and do not want children) subreddit but I figured I’d give it a shot since I’m betting on us haha.

I am monogamous with a career in sales that lets me travel a good amount in which I am grateful for. The better I do the more I can travel as well. I am hoping for a partner who is also successful in their career and goals but maybe has some freedom to be able to stay at places from time to time in which I have to travel to. Not a deal breaker if not, though!

I am predominantly a switch, though I’ve leaned more submissive over the past couple of years. Power dynamics in this sexual aspect are very important to who I want to spend my life with. I want to find a partner who values, respects, and understands my needs. As I write this, I am more certain than ever that, to feel fulfilled, I need a loving partner whom I feel safe and deeply attracted to in order to fully submit. I’m sure many here can understand the yearning I’m speaking of, and I wish to have that yearning met, fully embraced and cared for by a loving life partner.

Physical attraction is important to me in a relationship, especially in the initial stages, though I understand it evolves with time. I am not attracted to BBW and it cannot change. I like skinny and feminine women.

My person would be skinny, though height doesn’t matter to me. (I’m 5’6” if that matters to you, and I won’t be offended if it does.) We all have our preferences and deserve to have our needs met! I take my physical and mental health seriously. I work with a personal trainer 4–6 times a week, and I eat healthy most of the time. I also love to cook! My favorite cuisines are probably Mediterranean and Asian. Also just joined a flag football league for fun!

I like to read, and I’ve been making music and art my whole life, though I’m now focused on my sales career. I previously worked in healthcare sales for a long time, but I’ve since switched industries.

I’m a homeowner, but I’m not tied to my current location. It’s nice to have my own house, but a house becomes a home with your guiding hand.

I recently wrote a book, which is currently being edited. It’s about my relationships with women and how, through those relationships, I’ve come to know myself better. The book explores love and loss, neglect, childhood trauma, lust, desire, boundaries, and self-respect. I mention this because I’ve explored myself mentally and emotionally throughout my life and find therapy to be a wonderful resource and hope you do, too.

Regarding my kinks:

• Edging and Orgasm control (never have done chastity and not really into it. I like my dick)
• Butt stuff
• Forced orgasm/post orgasm torture
• BDSM
• Light impact
• Objectification
• Praise
• Water sports

HARD LIMITS

• cuckholding
• Humiliation
• Degradation
• Forced bi
• feminization
• Scat
• Cbt

Safety is such an important factor—to feel safe with someone is almost everything. And I say “almost” because, to feel safe and love someone is everything. That is what I want in my relationship with you. I hope you’re out there, and I look forward to talking more and getting to know each other :)

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