About me:

I’m 25, cis fem, she/her, pansexual. Not overly experienced in BDSM (esp as a domme) but have my fair share of kinks that I want to explore with someone and it’s hot to turn out a laundry list of my dream sub.

I’m a homebody, I enjoy reading and cooking. Passionate about music. 420 friendly. When I do get out I enjoy board game nights, concerts and any kind of lakefront hang. Not a big drinker.

Physically I am white, 5’3, overweight/curvy (and a lot stronger than I look 😉), brown wavy hair, blue eyes, glasses. Enjoy dressing up to go out but often rock a bit of an Adam Sandler vibe at home. Comfort wins every time.

About me NSFW:

Consent and communication turn me on. I am deeply caring and respectful of boundaries. It’s important to me that everyone feels confident in saying no when they’re uncomfortable and safe in knowing that they’ll be listened to if they do!

I am fun and playful as a domme, but that doesn’t mean that I’m nice. I like watching people getting desperate. I like teasing, edging, blindfolds/sensory deprivation, toys, free use, light humiliation/embarrassment, forced orgasms, pegging, cockwarming, facesitting.

I want to control things in your life. Your orgasms, your schedule, your clothes, your decisions. Facilitate hookups with others (all with consent and testing) and hear about them from you afterwards. I would love to hear what your domme controls in your fantasies. I love being pampered and worshipped, inside and outside of the bedroom. Service acts, chores, instruction following. Enthusiasm will get you places.

I think the dom/sub dynamic should be scorchingly sexy and simultaneously nurturing for both parties. I love the idea of us being seen together in public, and that no one knows that this strong, masculine person loves to submit to me.

Limits: puke/any bathroom play, going too far into family themes, any heavy shame or humiliation

Not an exhaustive list of kinks and limits but enough to get us started. Feel free to tell me your own.

About you:

**Anti-racist, LGBTQ or ally, shares a disgust for the power and greed of the upper class

**Masculine-presenting person between 23 and 35 of any gender

**Single, employed, clean and well-groomed, VACCINATED, STI tested or willing to be before intimacy

**Emotionally mature, communicative, honest, interested in building trust by relating to each other as people, outside of any dynamics

**Be willing to meet in public first and able to host at times

**Solid compatibility in kinks

Bonus, not dealbreakers:

You have big hands, or you’re tall, or you have a big/thick cock

Live on the far north side of Chicago

Actively in therapy!!!

If you meet the starred dealbreaker criteria, please include the following in your response:

1. Your age, location, physique, and at least one pic of you (SFW only)

2. A link to your favorite reddit post

3. Effort. I put some into this post, I expect the same.