I'm Gretchen, nice to meet you. I've posted here before, but I’m back to see if my elusive slave is still out there.

A little about me. I am married and in an open marriage(I’m Poly). He will gladly verify that with you if needed. He will have nothing to do with this relationship. I'm pansexual, but right now l'm more interested in a male slave. I am a sports nerd. I love watching football(49ers), baseball(Giants) and hockey(Blackhawks). But you don’t need to like sports for us to get along. I also love to read(Fav book is Steinbeck’s East of Eden, but now I mainly read romance to escape), I listen to podcasts...mainly about history(Stuff you Missed in History Class) is a favorite...and all kinds of music. Though my favorite band is the Foo Fighters. I listen to lots of country too. I love to travel and have luckily been all over the US and also different countries. My favorite US spot is Boston and my favorite international one is New Zealand. I also love Marvel movies and TV shows, and all things Star Wars.

I am 5'4 1/2" tall, have brown hair, hazel eyes and I wear glasses. I am a larger woman. I have a profile pic on my page and a post with a full pic of myself.

I am open to a lot of things when it comes to kinks. I like masculine men and feminine ones. I like men who will dress up for me if I ask, and ones that do it because they love to. I enjoy controlling orgasms, and using cages. But locking your cock up is not a requirement. I enjoy the trust it takes to control your orgasm from afar. I am not too good at degradation, I'm more of a nurturer. I may call you a slut or whore, but it's said more in a teasing and caring way. I really am looking for a slave to get to know. Not in a kinky, sexual way, but really get to know you. I want to be someone you can lean on if you need to. Knowing I'll be there for you and care for you. Really think about that before you message. Because a lot of men have said that's what they want, but it then just ends up being all sexual and trying to turn me into a kink dispenser. Which I am not.

Somethings that l've learned is that I really want impact play and bondage. I want to restrain you and hurt you, then care for you after. I want to mark you with an ownership tattoo, when we get to that point. I want to peg you, whenever the mood strikes me. I will be the one doing the fucking in the relationship. I truly want a slave that wants to be hurt and also loved and cared for. Someone described me as a Sadistic Mommy and I liked that. I also want someone that is good at communication. I enjoy messaging with my slave daily, also talking on the phone and video chatting.

Kinks l'm not into are animals, watersports, scat, anything having to do with feet, and facesitting.

I prefer if you’re over 28. I am looking for someone near me in Wisconsin or someone who would be willing to relocate if things go really well, as I’d love to have a live in slave.

If any of this sounds interesting to you, go ahead and drop me a chat message on here. If things go further we can change to texting or using Discord to communicate. I will try to reply to all of the requests I get, but it really depends if I'm overwhelmed with them, whether I can or not.