Hello, I hope you are doing well today. Thank you for reading my post and to respect your time I will front load the important stuff and go into detail after.

I’m a 6’ 1” tall guy looking for a long term relationship. Here are some hopefully unbiased pros and cons to me;

Pros

Loves to please

Financially stable

Open minded and seeking to understand

Very Protective/loyal

Lots of toys, some app controlled

Green eyes

Pros or Cons /-

/- Sub leaning switch

/- Bi with lean towards feminine presenting

/- Looking for the love of my life

/- Nerdy with a large variety of interests

/- Wants kids in the future

/- Going to college, Major is Psychology (neuroscience)

/- Kinky

/- Likes to cross-dress in private

/- Over active mind

/- Chill personality

Cons -

- Going on a military deployment next summer

- Often too serious, wants to be less

- Often takes things at face value, too many possibilities when you read between the lines all the time

- Anxiety prone but it’s managed

I know there is a lot of male subs to choose from so again thank you for reading my post. I know it must be hard to filter through to find what you’re looking for. If I am not them, I hope you find the one who’s right for you soon.

My nerdy hobbies include the popular ones like anime and video games, but I also love to read, write, table top games like dnd, martial arts, and starting to get into video creation and programming. In the future it would be interesting to get into music. Speaking of music I enjoy variety in that too, but energetic music, comedy music, and music that tells a story are my favs.

I am looking for someone who I share mutual attraction with and we can start out as friends hanging out when our schedules allow. I’m not a fan of jumping to the kink stuff right away, i dislike feeling used by people who don’t care about me. I’m trying to find someone to love and who loves me, that’s the type of person that makes my heart races and makes me feel submissive. On the other side of my switchness, having someone I want to protect appeals to my dominant side. I’m also looking for someone willing to communicate issues. Communication is healthy and ghosting stings hard. If you want to end things, please just say so first and I will respect your wishes.

I’m not looking for someone perfect, everyone has their flaws that contribute to making them who they are. But I do want my partner to take their mental and physical health seriously. I want to live a long happy life with them and avoid issues that are preventable.

Kink wise I am very adaptable and diverse. I don’t judge what others are into so long as they are not causing nonconsensual harm to others. In fact I like learning what makes people into the kinks the like. Reasons for desires and behaviors is a very interesting part of psychology for me. But back to me, my partners pleasure comes before mine most the time. I’m not completely selfless, but very self sacrificing if I can make my partner happy. I get a lot of satisfaction from it. I like the feelings of being cute and desired, or feeling small and toyed with, and in the right context being embarrassed or condescended to. I’m a strong capable person and it gives me a rush feeling my partner is “superior” to me and prizes me. When I’m feeling dominant, I get a rush from having someone so precious to me. Being a switch, I like knowing the prospective of both sides and being able to play into the roles. One day I’d like to know what it’s like to have a motherly dom, I haven’t had a partner into that yet.

I have too many kinks to list all but here’s a few; pegging, orgasm control, pregnancy/breeding play (wish I could be), feminization, futa, deep kissing, foreplay and teasing, momdoms, aftercare, bad dragon type toys, being gentle and caring, being rough (scratching, choking, and biting), spanking, being restrained, etc.

I don’t see porn as cheating and would love to gawk at some hot cocks with my partner if they want to too.

My limits are things like findom, emotional abuse, acts involving non-consenting people like public play. I’m happy to give my all to someone willing to do the same for me, I just fear being taken advantage of. I’m not great at seeing people I’m close to in a negative light.

Thank you for reading this far and please do shoot me a message if you wanna chat and see if we have chemistry. Please have a nice day/night.