Hey,

The title is no exaggeration. Well maybe a little. I'm looking for that special connection where it doesn't matter what happens, because we're secure having each other's backs. I'm looking for an emotional connection, and to develop that trust that you feel deep in your bones, when you have someone you'd stake your life on. I'm going to try and make this post as high effort as I can.

Massage me and I can provide you with:

1. Good and engaging text conversation, beyond kink

2. Voice calls, and video calls, over Discord or WhatsApp (Whatever is most appropriate)

3. Pictures of the cats I live with, whenever you need that afternoon dopamine hit, during a rough day of work or study

4. A future boyfriend, with a British accent, cute enough to make your friends jealous of you (This is obviously a joke 😉)

In all seriousness, I'm looking for somebody real, where there's actual potential. Our conversations won't last long if we don't trust each other. I understand sharing your life with someone over the internet can be daunting, but one-way conversations where I share the intimate details of my life, photos (not necessarily nudes), and so on, where the effort isn't reciprocated is never a good sign. And like a woman would expect a reciprocal connection to filter out the fakes, so try I. I hope that's understandable.

If you've read through that paragraph and haven't rolled your eyes and started doom scrolling elsewhere, let me tell you more about myself!

Here's a few photos of me:

Evidence I'm real (and my eye) - https://imgur.com/a/KS1nuAE

One of my favourite photos of myself with my E-Bike - https://imgur.com/a/7StBDWR

NSFW - https://imgur.com/a/ICS1ooa

Appearance:

I'm 24 years old. I'm 5'11/6'00 tall. Glasses. I have curly hair that is half the time an unruly mess, and half the time somewhat presentable. Salt spray is a saviour. And though it's not always visible I have a rook piercing in my right ear that I'm quite fond of. Typical British skin tone, and slim body type here. Your typical twink really. I have sectoral heterochromia, that gives a slight noticeable brown colour (on my right eye) that is otherwise blue. Fun fact: I was convinced my eyes were green for the longest time as a young kid. Apparently your eyes changing colour can be a rare phenomenon. I have some small tattoos. Plan to get more.

General life:

In my spare time I read and write as my main hobby. I get around primarily on my E-Bike. And I like to cook occasionally too, and try new things. I'm a massive foody. I fall into the category of would definitely spend a lot of money on a meal, just for the experience of it. But I don't do that often as much any more, as I'm getting my financial life together, after getting a new job recently, after several months of searching for something worthwhile. I'm now currently working for an international travel/holiday company primarily based in Europe, and will be applying to in-house apprenticeship schemes in the new year, to learn and grow more, and acquire the skills to build a life long career. That will be my new year's resolution: To better myself and my career.

Before this I worked in retail and hospitality. Places like Tesco supermarket and Nandos'. I worked for a few nice smaller more bougie restaurants too after COVID. I picked up a lot of self-confidence working these jobs, and they have dramatically improved my life in ways that are hard to describe. Some of my best friends still work in these fields, but we're all trying to better ourselves in our own ways.

My dream job would probably be a successfully published author. I'd move mountains to make that my reality. But it's one of those dreams you can work on slowly, unlike being an Olympic athlete, or something to that extent. Rome wasn't built in a day.

Personality:

I'm a quite cool-headed guy, for the most part. Been through periods of therapy. Read my share of self-help books. Took anti-depressants for a short period of time. I'm one of those people that benefit from a routine and I feel loads better living in a cleaner environment. Diagnosed with Asperger's when I was 9 years old or so. But I think I've grown out of the majority of the symptoms that were prevalent when I was younger. For the most part you wouldn't notice I'm on the spectrum, unless I told you. And no, unfortunately I don't have superpowers 😂 - I've genuinely been asked that before. I'm probably just more creative than some people, and being on the spectrum helps with that.

Sexual life:

I'm bisexual, though I don't always describe myself as that. I've never been romantically involved with a guy, though there are some aspects about the idea that I do like, when it comes down to the truth. But I'm very particular and selective with who I'm attracted to. This unfortunately prevents me from downloading Grindr and having easy sex 😂.

I find myself becoming more demisexual the older I become. Hence why finding an emotional connection is so important to me.

Kinks just to real off a list - Feminization (and everything to do with it) and gender confusion, playing with gender roles, pegging, hardly a kink but a lot of intimacy! (as well as sex), rimming (be it yours or mine), love bites and being marked, spanking, sensory play, forced-bi (with the emphasis of me being fucked and used), name-calling, mommydom play, restraints and gagging, spit, sex machines, and gratifying you. I have the most fun when you're having a good time, and I'll try most things even if they're not on the above list.

It's important to note none of these kinks are musts. If you didn't like feminization, for example, then no big deal.

Overall:

I have a realistic approach when it comes to relationships. I don't expect us to be immediately perfect for each other, but I want to put time and effort into building something worthwhile. It's a plus if you're living in the UK, but I'm reaching out primarily to Europeans as a whole. Though if you think we're compatible enough despite living in extremely different time zones, I invite you to get in contact with me anyway!

I hope you're having a great day wherever you are.

Will.