Hi! If this post is still up, I'm still looking - so send me a message! :)
I'm a 28M sub-leaning switch from Victoria, BC seeking a monogomous, long term relationship with a like-minded human to share our life and experiences together, and build an exciting and fulfilling kink dynamic rooted in trust and openness. Although I'm open to casual things and starting slow, I want us both to have a goal of building something lasting.
I'm goofy, shy, nerdy, hardworking, emotionally mature, honest, and a bit of a hopeless romantic. I have a lot to give! (time and love). I love board games, making music, and I spend a lot of time outdoors (hiking, camping, exploring). I'm a robotics engineer, and I love my work!
I'm looking for a beautiful soul who embraces their emotions and loves freely. A creative mind who can't help but bring new things into this world. We need to vibe in a deep way outside of kink and grow an organic friendship and relationship as a foundation for our dynamic. We can make eachother laugh, have difficult conversations, and feel cherished, loved, and needed.
Kink-wise, I am unabashedly submissive - but I love to top because I know how amazing it feels to be small, and I want that for you too (if that's your thing!). Topping is a creative outlet for me, too. That being said, I'm not super experienced in either realm (but not a total newbie either). Kink has been a big part of my life since I was really young - but I'm mostly informed by self play as my relationships thus-far have been pretty vanilla.
I'm very open to us both being 50/50 switches, but I'm also perfectly happy bottoming most (or all) of the time, if topping is your thing. During my time as a bottom, I want you to have me wrapped around your finger - I love to serve, be obedient, and be a good boy for you! (and be collared 😅).
I have lots of kinks that range from gentle to not. I also have a very high libido that can be agonizing at times, but can also be used in lots of fun ways :) Most of my interests revolve around rope bondage, submission, pain play, sensory play, edging/orgasm control/denial, and collaring/ownership.
Some ideas of things I'm into: - We tie eachother up, cuddle, lay at eachother's feet while we watch a movie - I'm routinely emotionally broken and reduced to a sobbing, horny mess through a combination of intense bondage, pain play, and denial 🥹 - Maybe one week I'm collared, the next you are? While I'm collared - I do all the chores, cook for us, and serve you in every way possible. Or, you know, keep me collared all the time. :) - Fun, casual rope bondage nights! - Predicament bondage and hours of teasing - Lots of other things
Limits: no scat, blood, or anything permanent. I'm TPE curious but only as a sub I think. I'm also SUPER open to most things, so don't worry if I haven't explicitly stated your kink, chances are I'm probably into it :)
Random info: I'm open to kids but it's not the goal - if kids are a must for you, this may not work out! I'm looking for someone roughly around my age (25-35 ish), and I welcome bi, non-binary, and queer folk! Romantic monogomy is really important to me. I'm 6' hwp (neither a skinny nor big guy), I'm strong and stay relatively fit. I have brown eyes / brown hair and a big goofy laugh and smile. I would prefer if you were close to Victoria, but I'm willing to do long-distance or travel if we really sweep eachother off our feet - we'd just need to close the gap eventually!
I'll send pictures when you message! Thank you so much for reading :)
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