Hey, I’m Upper—an alt/emo-styled nerd who’s very task-oriented but struggles with decision-making thanks to ADHD. I’m looking for a dynamic where I can trust you to lead while I thrive on just earning your praise. :]

I’d love to text and call daily, maybe play some games, before eventually meeting up in person.

About Me:

Physically - 5’7, White, Cis Male, Lean kind of Twink Build. Long Brown Hair, Blue Eyes, a Nose Piercing. I like dark or cozy clothing. Hoping for several tattoos. I can share pics after talking for a bit. :)

Hobbies - I’m into board and card games, video games and binging TV series, anime or random YouTube documentaries. I enjoy walks, escape rooms, conventions, and arcades. My dream is to be a voice actor or content creator, and to more consistently work out, draw, and learn instruments.

Personality - I’d like to think I’m nonchalant and indifferent, but honestly, I’m pretty awkward and get flustered easily—thanks to my ADHD and severe social anxiety. Still, I’m smart, a great listener, and always try to be helpful and entertaining. I’ll go above and beyond to put loved ones before myself. My love languages are words of affirmation and acts of service.

What I’m Looking For:

I’m looking for someone who can be both a friend and a partner—someone I can laugh with, hang out with, AND share a romantic connection. I’d like us to talk daily, starting with texts and eventually meeting in person. Ideally, you’re 23-32, in the USA, and have common interests.

I thrive in a dynamic where my partner decides things for me. I’m happiest surrendering control over simple decisions like my outfits, hairstyle, or cologne, and being trusted to perform tasks that make you proud. I like being shaped into the perfect boyfriend for you—someone you’re proud to show off because of how well I meet your needs.

I want a partner who enjoys making me flustered, and can be gentle until tested. You take pleasure in owning and cherishing me, and I find joy in being groomed and molded to your liking, knowing it’s all for your pleasure. I’ll do just about anything as long as encouragement, praise, and head/back scratches follow. Above all, I want to feel supported and secure in a relationship where I’m constantly working to make you proud and see the love in your eyes.

NSFW

While I only have a little real-life experience, I’m extremely open-minded. Anything listed below I’m either into or at-least curious about, so it’s okay if we don’t 100% match.

Interested in: Pegging, Forced Feminization, Pet Play, TPE, Rules/Punishments, Forced Intoxication, Light Bondage, Tasks, Biting, Scratching, Facesitting, Praise, Being Marked,

Hard Limits: Findom, Scat, Piss, Vomit, Extreme Pain, Sounding