So I'm a 21 year old Male, and I have kinda been curious about my kinky side. I have tried dating apps but clearly it was to no avail as I either do not synergize with them or lack the balance between a friendship and the dynamic. I would personally like it if we could start off as friends, get to know each other a bit even if it is for a meet up or just talking online, we can move onto honorifics after as well. I am shy and introverted but as I get more comfortable with you I would send pictures with and without a face but dont come in commanding for it as it is something that I feel should come from a sense of comfortability and trust that I can be vulnerable around you. I will verify I'm real if that's what you are wondering cause why not i love answering questions and meeting new people.
I'm not exactly new to this, I have read a few posts about a dynamic lifestyle and it's always been something that has interested me. I also know the vast difference between that of a dynamic and those displayed in books and movies are different to that of the practical sense in which I'd love to explore. If you're from Malaysia, you are definitely preferred but nevertheless if you're from a different country that's fine, you just may have to wait a while longer to meet me in person but i would still love to talk to you.
So a little about me, I love reading which is primarily about smut and manhwa. I've recently found a new passion for going to the gym which is actually fun for me. Yes unfortunately I am a bit built and I'm still trying my best to bulk up cause I'm not as satisfied and i have a huge metabolism. If that is a turn off and you prefer more feminine boys I'm truly sorry as much as I'd love to be one, my broad shoulders would not let me...besides that I spend my free time taking care of my garden and gaming. Yes i play a few games including genshim (currently ar60), mobile legends (due to the season reset im currently at legend 5), valorant (don't ask for i will bot frag everytime and i play sentinels). As for more info about my physical appearance, I'm 5'7 or 170 cm depending on what scale you use. (yeah I am short as hell) toned body, tanned or brown skin. My weight varies within the days as i mentioned i have a very fast metabolism so i would eat twice the amount and probably not put on any weight. What's worse is that I'd probably lose weight despite how much I eat.I wear glasses but not that often unless I'm driving. Very timid but I get more bold at times when I am more comfortable with you.
My ideal domme would be someone who's both gentle and somewhat sadistic, like you'd cuddle and pat me but you'd put me right in my place as the dynamic asks for it. We can talk about kinks and how if we met you'd like to try them and I'd be very invested in it as again this is a progressive learning for me to find what i like and dislike. Having kinks that resonate with me is something I'm eager to explore. As for body types, I really don't think I have a preference. It's alright if you don't feel confident in your body type, I'm not here to judge you. There isn't a fit description to that of a domme and your body type is something that should be worshipped regardless. And yes i might have a slight worship kink so if we meet you might have me asking if i could.i would prefer someone around my age range or slightly older. I think I'm capped at 30 just to be safe but you could be older. I'm not really picky as long as you're comfortable talking to a 21 year old who uses slang and abbreviations. Ooooh dominant couples are also welcomed as I am kinda bi curious as well so having a couple play with me might make me just as excited.
I'm currently in my final year of degree in a field that does not fit my submissive nature as I've been told on various occasions. So in the event things go well between us I would definitely be open to moving to wherever you are. And as for findommes it's not that you aren't welcomed, it is just that in my position i wouldn't be able to pay for your attention, so even if you come to me with a "it is a one time payment and lasts a lifetime", that isn't something I'd be interested in, I'd rather work up to being someone that can visit you regularly and give you my time rather than spoil you and only get the satisfaction of a bit of your attention.
I would live to list my kinks but as the post mentioned I'd love to explore most of them. But I will mention that in terms of conversation I have both a praise and degradation kink (yes we exist and it is sexually frustrating when both are used, like literally help me I'm burning up from anything you say). I have identified a few of my limits being gore, extreme harm, scat and blood however I'm open to trying certain kinks too. I do hope to hear from anyone as I'm not really picky about body types or anything , as long as you are friendly and somewhat have a kinky sadistic side you are welcomed to dm me. I would share my discord and if things get more comfier we can see how things go. If you are just looking for a kinky friend I'd love to be that too and we can talk about your day, or you can rant to me about anything or just how you feel, the dynamic isn't purely made for us 24/7 as we both have love outside of this too. Hope to hear from you soon~
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