Ever wanted a sub who could chat about the latest book in your favorite romance series, show you the beauty of Saturn or the Pleiades, and worship you the way you deserve, all in the same night? Look no further!

For most of this year, I’ve been in an online dynamic with a non-binary dominant from Germany. They’ve taught me a lot about my submissive side and have encouraged me to continue exploring aspects of it with someone closer to home, especially ones that don’t lend themselves to online play.

To that end, I’m looking for a nearby gentle domme interested in an online dynamic that would transition to an IRL one if we click.

About Me:

I’m an author, editor, and proofreader by trade. Most of my work is fantasy, sci-fi, romance, erotica, or some combination of those genres. I also dabble in poetry on occasion. Yes, that includes erotic poetry;)

My experience with kink has been entirely online so far. About a year of active play, plus reading beforehand, so I’m not a total novice, but I’m not super experienced either.

My hobbies:

• Amateur astronomy and astrophotography. There’s nothing quite like a night under the stars, even light-polluted suburban ones, and I love the thrill of hunting down a faint star cluster or asteroid. I’m still very much a novice on the photography side of things, but I’ve managed some excellent shots of the Moon.
• Reading. Most of the books I read are in the same genres as what I write. I’m especially fond of fantasy romance like T. Kingfisher’s Saint of Steel series. However, I read quite a bit of history as well. My latest field of study has been the Bronze Age Collapse.
• Gaming. My favorite games are narrative-based, especially narrative RPGs. Dragon Age, Mass Effect, Fallout, Elder Scrolls, Witcher, etc. I’d especially love to serve someone who’s a fellow fan.
• I’m also into college football, so bonus points for anyone who prefers America’s brightest orange to crimson and cream. But I wouldn’t mind subbing for someone on the other side of the rivalry, either. Could add a bit of heat to our dynamic;)

Appearance:

• Euro-American
• Slim/Slender/Skinny Build
• 5’11”
• Brown Hair
• Blue Eyes (Heterochromatic, with a hazel ring around the pupil)

What I’m Looking For:

• A domme who leans toward the gentle, affectionate side
• My ideal age range is 25-40, but I’m open to women 20-50
• Online to start, IRL once we’ve become comfortable with each other and built a firm foundation of trust.
• A dynamic that coexists with my current one, at least at first. Down the road, exclusivity could be on the table. So could a live-in situation or relocation.
• Within these conditions, I’m open to a variety of dynamics. Ours could be short-term or long-term. It could be 24/7 or session-based. It could be entirely sexual, friendly, or turn romantic.
• Physically, I’m drawn to a lot of women, so don’t rule yourself out!
• Bi, tall, or fit/athletic/muscular women may have an edge, though. And if you’re all three…

Known Kinks:

• All kinds of orgasm control. Edging, tease & denial, ruins, JOI, etc.
• Short and mid-term chastity, whether with a cage or totally mental
• Cum play and CEI
• Body writing
• Playful Degradation
• Praise
• Bondage
• Anal/Pegging

Known Hard Limits:

• No urine
• No scat (so no ass-to-mouth)
• No blood, gore, or actual bodily harm
• Nothing permanent 
• Nothing public
• Being asked to share identifying information
• Homophobia, biphobia, transphobia, racism, or sexism. Bigotry of any kind, really.

Due to my online presence as an author and the risk of blackmail, I can’t share face pics but am willing to offer other means of verification. Once we build trust, I’d be willing to soften that limit. Pics or even video of other kinds aren’t a problem, though ;)

Miscellaneous Info:

• Since I haven’t considered sex or romance a priority until very recently, you’ll be taking my virginity if this becomes physical.
• Full disclosure: I do have an online sub. Neither of you ever need to interact with each other, but you should know about her (just as she’ll know about you and I know about her offline domme).

In Conclusion:

If you’re still reading after all this and think we might be a match, don’t hesitate to send a chat request or direct message! 

I check this account daily but not constantly, so it’s possible I may not realize you’ve contacted me for a bit, but I’ll answer ASAP. Hope to hear from you soon!