Hi, I'm Brie!

Physically, I'm taller and fatter than the average Southeast Asian woman but I look good regardless. I'm not good in describing myself, so let's exchange photos early on.

Vanilla-wise, I like to be a homebody so I also work from home. In my free time, I either hang out with friends on Discord or go out just to do whatever. I guess I'll leave out more information so we can have room for conversation.

I'm also new to the BDSM scene and I was fortunate enough to have been briefly owned by a soft maledom. However, under his guidance, he was able to help me discover what I actually am.

I now identify as a femdomme-leaning switch, wherein:

• I enjoy a power dynamic where I am the one who mostly sets rules, assigns tasks, and enforce consequences.

• I prefer to be the one giving partners instructions or daily tasks, whether sexual or non-sexual most of the time.

• I have a "feeling" or a "sense" of submitting only to certain partners, situations, or dynamics that appeal to me.

• I sometimes enjoy a "break" from control and would prefer someone else takes charge momentarily.

• Write the phrase 'Say cheese!' anywhere when you send me a message.

• I seem to enjoy the fluidity between dominant and submissive roles, depending on my mood, partner, or context.

• I would heavily prefer to have a partner who can confidently hold their role, whether they’re submitting or taking control.

With the partner I'm looking for, I want to experience:

• how to implement power & control (i.e. chastity, task-based submission, rules & protocols, etc.)

• physical restraint & positioning (i e. bondage, collars & leashes, kneeling, etc.)

• sensation & sensory play (i.e. blindfolds, deprivation, temperature play, etc.)

• humiliation & embarrassment (i.e. verbal humiliation, clothing control, writing on skin, etc.)

• pleasure control (i.e. edging, tease & denial, sensual play, forced abstinence, etc.)

• rituals & ceremonial play (i.e. daily rituals, devotion tasks, position training, body worship, etc.)

• roleplay & thematic dynamics (i.e. service submission, specific roleplay scenarios, degradation play, slave play, etc.)

Preferably, my partner: * is 21 to 30 years old * taller than me * has the means to meet in person * wants this to be a long-term connection * is strictly monogamous * has a flexible schedule and can work around with my free time

I'll pass on anything that would cause either of us harm, illegal stuff, blackmailing, toilet stuff, and the other common limits.

If you're willing to be my person, please reach out with vanilla and kinky information about you. Low effort responses are automatically denied.

Please also attach your SFW photo/s through online image sharing platforms for me to accept your chat invite.