Hi, my name is Eric and I am based in the Greater Portland area of southern Maine. I’m 39 years old and my height is 5 '9. Right now, I am splitting my time between a job in Information Technology and finishing a second bachelor’s degree in cybersecurity (one semester left!). I am a “normal” sort of guy, with normal guy vibes. I like being at home as well as the outdoors. I’m drawn to the mountains. I like reading, travel and fitness. I have been to many countries around the world and I work out several times per week. I'm sweet, attentive, obedient, and a good listener.

I am looking for a serious, lifestyle FLR. I’m honestly not interested in short term fun, scenes, online/virtual relationships. I want the real deal. I am looking for my forever-Queen, and the hope is that it leads to marriage eventually. I am also interested in having kids.

I think it’s important to note that I still have many masculine qualities and I am entirely able to be assertive, to be proactive, and  to lead, while still knowing my place and submitting to my partner. I am capable of, and inclined to present myself publicly as a regular guy/couple, while keeping elements of our D/s dynamic private.

For me, the emphasis is not on the sexual aspect of the relationship. Yes, sex is important to me, but FLR is so much more than that. I want to find a service-oriented relationship where I can submit fully to the authority and control of an intelligent and confident woman. I thrive under a strict regime of structure, rules, and discipline.

I think women are incredible and I am genuinely in awe of female power. I’m happiest when I am serving and derive true joy from submission (I do have experience submitting to a female partner). In our relationship, my goal would be to improve your life as much as possible, to work toward your goals, to make your life easier and to eliminate as much hassle and inconvenience for you as possible. 

I would try to be as low maintenance as possible for you so that you are not constantly subject to the mental labor of micromanaging me. I would learn to provide anticipatory service to you so that your needs and desires are met and your life runs as smoothly and seamlessly as possible. Domestic and personal service are elements of a FLR that are very important to me. I want to be in a loving relationship in which we can do all the things normal couples do, but I also want to be an accessory of yours that orbits around you, improving your life in any way I can.

The two most important elements for me are a service-oriented FLR, and strict orgasm control with male chastity. These two things are deal breakers for me, and we would probably not be a good fit if you were not into them as well. Below, I will list some other things that I enjoy, but please understand that I am flexible on all of them and can live with or without them.

- Body worship: this is probably at the top of my list of “wants” and works great as a reward when I have been a good boy. Being allowed access to your feet (foot rubs, kisses, toe sucking, foot baths, overall worship). Full body massages. I’d love to get really good at this and get a real massage table. Mani/pedi: I’d really love to learn to give you professional level treatment so your nails are always looking perfect. Lastly, oral sex: being allowed to go down on you might be the single greatest reward possible, and it would be one of the top priorities of my life to learn to please you perfectly this way.

- Cuckolding: I love this, but I also recognize that it is polarizing and many women simply want nothing to do with it. While I would love it, I don’t need it.

- Physical discipline: I would love a FLR that incorporated aspects such as spanking and more.

- A sadistic side: I enjoy a partner with a bit of a sadistic side who likes making me suffer a bit for her, but I also like a gentle-Domme vibe just fine as well.

- Pegging: This is something I would be open to and happy with, but I am not obsessed with it by any means.

- Humiliation: I do enjoy humiliation, and it can take many forms. SPH, cucking, teasing, being the “beta” male, female superiority, feminization play (I don’t go too overboard with this but you could easily have me wearing panties if you were so inclined).

- High control. I can thrive without this, and I know many women find it to be a lot of work, but some like it. I do enjoy being bossed around by an extremely demanding woman who exerts control over everything. Strict obedience, adherence to protocols, micromanagement, asking permission, etc.

Lastly, when it comes to traditional PIV sex, I do of course enjoy it. I am open to a variety of arrangements where PIV is concerned. I could be happy with a partner who doesn’t cuck me and likes to have regular PIV with me, or at the other end of the spectrum, I could be happy with someone who only fucks other men and keeps me 100% pussyfree. I am flexible, but probably my ideal scenario would be a partner who only allows penetration on special occasions that are fairly rare (1-6 times per year). 

Thanks for reading, and thanks to all the dominant women out there because you are so special and so rare, and you deserve the world!