Hello there, a bit about me. In the past year i have made the largest strides in self improvement so far in my life. I have lost alot of weight, moved out of from my parents, got a job as a software engineer from being mostly self taught and most notably came to terms with and accepted myself as being a submissive man after feeling ashamed about it for a long time. I have struggled with depression and isolation for a long time since i was a late teen. I feel alot better and more confident about myself than i have in a long time. I feel I am on a good path now but one thing i feel i am still missing in my life is that companionship and if there is one thing i learned from my experiences is that life is short and you cant waste it waiting for things to fall into your lap. Which is what brings me here.

Some more info about me:

• I am white, 6"2/187, brownish/dirty blond hair and have an avarage build. We can exchange face pics in dms.
• I focus alot on self improvement and enjoy helping others better themeselves as well if i am able.
• I value a healthy work life balance. I would rather build relationships, foster new skills, help others and live new experiences than dedicating my life to my job.
• I am qutie stoic in public but am a giant softie underneath my exterior.
• I'm an empath and a child at heart.
• Im a hopless romantic and love everything to do with love, romance and displays of affection.❤️
• Im politically left leaning and have very inclusive and egalitarian world views.
• Im not religious, only thing i want to worship is you. 🙏

Interests and hobbies:

• 🍛I love to cook, trying and experimenting with new recipes and seeing what wonders (or monstrosities) i come up with!
• 🎮I play pc games, i mostly enjoy relaxing, cooperative and story driven games like Stardew or Baldurs Gate.
• 📺My favorite genres of series are animation and fantasy but i like anything that does something uniqe and creative.
• 🌳Taking walks in the forest is my way of destressing. I like looking at the trees, i like looking at the ponds, i like looking at the squirrels playing. I like listening to rustiling of the leaves, the birds chirping and nature generally doing its thing.
• 🏋️I try to stay healthy, going to the gym 3-4 times a week and tracking my nutrition.
• ⚔ History is a huge passion of mine, I am interested in all periods of history but my main passions have been in the classical era and the cold war. Recently i have been getting really into medieval history as well!
• 🖥️Computer programming, this is also what i do for a living. I code in Javascript and Python mostly and can make a nice looking website. Ive also dipped a bit into learning game development.
• 🎭Role playing, I like to play ttrpgs like DND. It is really creatively liberating to slip into the shoes of a character or even creating your very own world and story in colaboration with others. Its something I would very much like to explore more of when i get the chance and meet the right person or people to do it with :)

I am mainly interested in being a service sub, acts of servitude and devotion are how i express my affection and love. I feel like i have so much love to give and no one to give it to so I am looking to find someone special to get to know and eventually worship and devote myself to completely in body mind and soul in a commited female lead relationship built on trust, communication and mutual respect. In the wise words Lumière, life is so unearving for a servant who is not serving, he is not whole without a soul to wait upon.

I am also quite fond of affectionate sadism, pet play, ERP and alot more. Id love for us to get to know each other with the goal of eventually meeting up in real life once we have established a genuine connection. In a partner i value communication, open mindedness, creativity and an interest in pushing societal boundaries. Being Possessive is a big plus as well since i can be quite needy.

My limits are: cuckolding, polygamy, forced bi and findom.

Thank you so much for reading my personal. I plan on keeping this post up until ive found my person so feel free to dm if you'd like to get to know each other :)