Hi hi!

If you’ve found your way to my post I hope you had a lovely holiday! Please make sure that you have read alll the way to the bottom - you have a much better response from me if you take the time to read things fully and not ask me questions that are very clearly answered here.

I am an AFAB Enby person looking to make a new connection in the community! I currently have a nesting partner but I am poly - I am not looking for an exclusive connection. I am pansexual and demisexual as well - I do not have any interest in quick sexual exchanges. I need a friend first and foremost.

I am not going to rush into anything and I am certainly not going to be someone’s masturbation fodder. If you need someone to get you off, there are plenty of other folks who would be happy to help you with that! I am really looking for someone who is interested in a long-term connection and is willing to put in the hard work that is required.

A little about me:

• passionate, creative, and driven - I’ve always got some project on the go - I’m always looking for some good drawing prompts so if you’ve got ideas, I’d love to hear them!
• poly, partnered, and happy! - I am very happily in a relationship and this is not going to affect or change that
• I love to work on myself and learn new things! I’m always reading something interesting and I stick to a pretty strict routine - I’m not going to be up half the night and I’m not always endlessly available.
• I am learning to love to read again! Recently picked up a new book about masochism that I’m sure I’d love to chat about!

About kinky me:

• I am a dominant leaning switch
• I am currently in a 24/7 dynamic as a service submissive to my partner
• I am most interested in tasks, mental domination, and someone who can add something to my life. I am not a kink dispenser and I will not accept someone who is looking for one.
• I am not interested in sexual play of any kind; if you are only interested in orgasm control, pegging, or anything like that I will not be a good fit for you
• If you claim to not have any limits, we will not be a good fit. I don’t mind people being new but knowing what your limits are and aren’t is an important thing

Who I’m looking for:

• a submissive or switch between the ages of 30-45 with some experience in kink - no exceptions on the age
• someone poly or single - I do not have any interest in someone who is going behind their partners back
• someone who understands that reciprocal effort is important - I have no interest in being the driving force behind every single interaction.
• time zone doesn’t really matter but if you’re closer to EST we will likely have similar schedules
• someone who knows what they want and what their intentions are - I do not want to rush but I do want to know what I am getting into. I do not want someone who just wants to get into a dynamic without any thought about it
• someone who is willing to have conversations that are not just about kink! I want to be friends as well - I feel like it makes for the best play if we are to progress that far -someone interested in voice and video chats! I’ve usually got a decent amount of time throughout the day ☺️
• someone willing to be honest, open, and communicate with me. I do not tolerate people who aren’t willing to have the hard talks and work as a team.

If this sounds like something you could be interested in, feel free to send me a DM! I would love to hear about something you are passionate about and what you hope to get out of a new connection ☺️

Looking forward to hearing from you soon!