Hello I️ am a dominant and I need a subs help. Maybe that sub is you?

I’m looking for a companion.

Long story short: this is an ad best suited for someone who feels they want to fill their life with a feminine presence, and is ok with that not being a long term relationship, but still a loving one. It’s an ad best suited for someone looking to gain some experience in submissive energy without committing to a full romantic relationship. Anal virgins welcome.

I need a place to put my mommy while I️ build. I️ do. I️ have needs as a woman, a mommy, a Queen, and a Goddess, and I️ know there’s a sub in my area who needs some experience with that that’s like. Maybe you’re not entirely sure of yourself. Maybe you have no life and are looking for someone to have in your corner to talk about your day and role play with/do scenes with. Maybe you just genuinely love being submissive and would jump at any opportunity to be so.

Consider me like Snow White. I️ need a seven dwarf to help me. I’m really a very gentle femdom. Many wouldn&& consider me too gentle, but for me, that’s what makes me so perfect.

I️ run a small business and have a full time job. I️ have sexual needs. I️ have intimacy needs. I️ want to make art. I️ want to call someone on my way home from work. I️ want a companion.

I️ need help living my life on a day to day basis. I️ need a place to play. I️ need a person to give my mommy, Queen, Goddess energy without planting roots here in Raleigh. I️ just want to play.

I practiced. I️ just want to dance.

I’m not into insecure attachment. This isn’t a friends with benefits agreement. This is very much a companionship. You can tell people we’re partners if you’d like. I’ll tell people the same. We are playmates. We are companions. We are partners.

I’m moving within a year and I️ just need someone to give my love and to be loved by someone until that time.

I’m a very gentle dom. I️ require very little of this companionship.

1. you enjoy lists and doing things on the lists for rewards. These are things like chores, helping me do art, helping me answer emails, helping me shower/baithing me, running an errand, reading something to me, taking notes for me, etc. like a domestication kink and a secretary kink combine. This is going to be a HUGE part of the relationship is you helping me with things like this and then having intimacy things as a reward (as described below). I️ also want you to wear this little apron I️ found around my apartment and I’d like to wear lingerie. Ahhh. My fantasy.
2. The rewards you like receiving the best are sexual/intimacy submissive based (anal, kissing/making out, titty time, good boy kink, massages, nuzzling, etc). Bonus points if you’re bisexual and doing threesomes where I️ control a scene with you and another sub as a reward. Men kissing men is amazing but two subs making mommy happy? Letting mommy control the scene? Uhgggg chefs kiss.
3. You must enjoy chastity. It is important to me that you wear a cage around me at all times. I️ will never touch your penis without a cage on, nor will you go inside of me. This is a hard limit for me. If you’ve never done chastity and you’re interested, this is a good place to try it out. Casual. If you don’t like it, the relationship will end but no hard feelings I’m proud of you for trying.
4. You MUST love titty time. That’s a main form of intimacy, foreplay, aftercare, all day play, etc for me. I️ have a mommy-breastfeeding kink. I️ can have my nipples sucked on for hours with no problem. Easy. Nightly. Daily. Falling asleep with my titties in your mouth is my dream all the time. I was born to put that part of my body into a mouth and feed another human being, even just spiritually as a sub. Who’s a good boy :333333
5. You enjoy a slight bit of humiliation, but not too much. Simple things like being pathetic or being used by mommy/Queen/Goddess to do things around the house for rewards like kisses, etc, what a good boy, etc. maybe even being a little cum slut(like eating your own), but that’s as far as I’ll go. I’m really quite gentle.
6. I️ will never hit you. Ever. Ideally, you don’t swallow pain well at all. It’s a must. If you’re a masochist, that’s fine. I’m the wrong mommy, Queen, and Goddess for you.
7. You enjoy massages, body kissing, and other tantric forms of intimacy. Massages are a huge need for me. Full body and all. Expect to give and receive them often. Like ALL THE TIME. With kisses and licks and titty time thrown in the mix.
8. You enjoy stretching/will do partner stretches with me. It’s a need for me. Deeply. Again will be happening all the time.
9. You enjoy going to the gym and might even consider going to my gym with me :3 even if not, that fitness is a priority to you
10. You’re ok with me being a raw vegan. I’m a raw vegan. It is what it is. It would be cool if you were a vegan or raw vegan, but if you’re not, as long as you’re nice to me about it, that’s what I care about. I️ don’t want a companion who’s constantly pushing meat and dairy on me. My body can’t eat it. Idk. Everyone should eat what makes them healthy! It sure smells good af tho haha I️ do miss it hahaha. I️ miss a lot of foods haha. But it means things like I don’t eat pizza, pasta, restaurants at all tbh, etc. So if going out to eat is a love language for you, this companionship will break your heart I’m sorry. My body is the way my body is and I️ wont pay for a bowl of plain lettuce haha.
11. You will go/enjoy going to home hockey games (Hurricane games specifically) on Saturdays. They usually have a home game once every two weeks on a Saturday or so. Yay so fun! Maybe we’ll even travel for a game once or twice before the season ends.
12. That you LOVE being called a good boy. If being called a good boy doesn’t strike something deep in your soul, I️ could not be a good mommy companion. Calling a man a good boy as he does chores for me on a list and then I️ ckme up behind him and whisper in his ear how mommy is so proud of him for doing all his chores etc etc etc, does EVERYTHING for me. If it doesn’t for you, that’s ok, please move along. I️ also don’t do punishments. At the end of the day, you’re a grown man with a kink. If you don’t want to be obedient that’s fine, you may leave. That’s the end for me. I️ don’t do bratty. That’s ok if you are, that’s just not the good boy I’m looking for.
13. Physical touch is important to you. Skin on skin. Naked on naked. Kissing. Touching. Feeling. You need skin. I️ need skin. We can be safe and intimate together. I️ want to create a safe place to need that skin contact. Yes I want to make some things rewards, but I️ still want you to feel safe to have hugs whenever you want. I’m not cold with touching. Quite the opposite. I’m extremely affectionate. Haha.
14. You’re available on weekends. Is a need for me and it cannot be negotiated unless it’s Sunday afternoons that you’re busy. Preferably not. You MUST be free on Saturdays though. PREFERABLY Friday nights into Saturdays even but I️ can be reasonable.
15. You mustttttt live in the Raleigh Area. Not Charlotte. Not Durham. I’m not doing a commute. Nope. Anything more than 30 minutes is too far for me. If I️ can’t call you and ask you to come over easily, or you can’t run home and grab something, etc, it’s too far. I’m not interested tbh. I️ want this to be easy. Really easy. Smooth sailing
16. You must loveee music and enjoy music and dancing. It’s a must for me. A true must. I️ listen to New Music Friday religiously. I️ am big into the music scene as well.
17. You must loveee watching movies. I️ have a list of movies I️ HAVE to start watching and I’d like to have you suckle (yes like I said I️ have a breast feeding mommy kink) while we watch movies. I️ need it. I️ really do haha. And that maybe you’ll even fall asleep, so precious you worked so hard today for mommy ohmhgoodness what a good boy Uhg. (Haha yes that’s how I️ talk in that safe space so you can have a taste)
18. You understand that although its sexual, the relationship is mostly intimacy. As you maybe have noticed, I️ said chastity and not entering me, as well as I️ haven’t said anything about you eating me out. Yes I️ find this so sexy. Yes I️ am a dominant. Yes I️ NEED a good boy who loves pussy, BUT my womb just needs this very intimate emotional connection with the physical skin on skin etc right now. Yes titties. Yes even anal to a degree. Yes being used and slightly humiliated/degraded but mostly just intimacy. Kissing. Titties. Laughing. Loving. Being a good boy. A safe place. A haven to be myself. I️ need someone I️ can twirl around and give lists and call him a good boy and kiss him and dote on him as he does things with me and for me and sit on his lap and put my titties in his mouth and grind on him. It is sexual. But it’s more intimate. I’m being honest about my needs in the now.
19. You will drive me around whenever we’re in the car together. Obviously I️ can drive etc in everyday life. But when we’re together, and we’re both going somewhere, you drive, even if it’s my car. I️ don’t drive myself if I️ don’t have to.
20. You just wanna have a fun 2025. You wanna go and do things. You wanna explore your submissive side without worry or fear. You want to have a relationship with someone that’s light hearted and not a marriage contract. You’re looking for something secure that you can put your feelings, but also know that it’s ultimately temporary so any mistakes made, roughnesses, things that maybe you explore and find out aren’t for you (etc), are going to just fly away with the wind when we part ways when I️ move. It’s like an extended summer with the girl next door who’s visiting her grandparents for the summer. You know she’s gonna leave. But you can have the best time. Like a summer fling, but seasonal independent plus she runs a business and needs a sexual/intimacy mommy, Queen, Goddess outlet.

I️ need a place to plug in. Do you?

I️ will be doing a contract to lay out everything that we decide in the end so that we are set on the boundaries of the relationship

I️ am a confrontation person when it comes to issues btw. It’s sooo attractive to me when I’m having a bad day or a problem, or we’re having a problem, and you present me solutions. I’m very solution oriented. If conflict in any way makes you shut down beyond needing reassurance and love and adoration and maybe some titties to open back up again, that’s ok, but that means I’m too much of a go-getter. I address everything. I’m very open and direct. Again if that’s not you, that’s ok, but that’s what I️ need out of this companion.

Also I️ don’t do toxic relationships with parents. If you don’t have a good relationship with your parents, that’s ok, that happens. But if you hanging out with me makes your mom jealous, or your dad beats you and you’re ok with it, or your family dynamic is incestuous and you’re ok with it, etc, that’s fine that’s your family, I’m just gonna exit. That’s not what I’m about. Your family doesn’t have to love me, but I️ do want to have a certain level of sane between us to share you.