About me:

I’m a 49 year old lifestyle Domme with 25 years of experience. I’m a Latina BBW, 5’2”, with deep brown eyes and shoulder length wavy to curly dark hair, plus I’m deliciously bottom heavy. I was the big titty goth girlfriend way before it was cool, now I’ve earned elder Goth GF status. I’m inclined to be a gentle Domme, but I can be quite moody & vicious at times. Don’t test me on this.

I’ve always been a geeky person, autistic as hell and am prone to fixating on my interests, which include the Star Trek universe (NOT Star Wars), cats, live music, 1980s-2000s post punk, electronic & indie rock, Apple technology, plane crashes, astronomy, and leftist politics; to the silly, whimsical and absurd (like my sense of humor). Memes and cat pics are one way to get my attention.

My main kinks include: face sitting, body worship, smothering, spanking, foot worship, nipple play, overstimulation, fat woman/thin man relationships, FLR, age gap (older woman/younger man only), CBT, himboification, edging, psychological control, and verbal humiliation.

Hard limits: chastity, polyamory/ENM, ABDL, incest, JOI/CEI, SPH, sissification, vore, vomit, spitting and race play. I also hate porn addicts and I don’t give tasks.

I’m not here to be your therapist either.

What I’m searching for:

I want to find a few good switch or sub boys for ongoing online play. My pleasure is to always be centered and made your ultimate priority. I don’t want to meet up for any reason. I only want dirty chat, pic exchange and voice notes, and I’m not interested in real time calls of any kind unless I REALLY like you.

Being in the SF Bay Area won’t earn you any extra points, as I’m often online when the rest of the West Coast is sleeping. SFW pics are desirable but not necessary, as trust is built I will share mine in kind.

You must fit all of these qualities to be considered:

• late 20s-30s, no older than 37
• thin to athletic body type
• smooth or has very little body hair
• hung at least 7”, don’t ask for exceptions
• a natural exhibitionist, or intrigued by it
• has no unresolved mental health issues
• verbose & can dirty talk well
• emotionally intelligent
• self confident, in bed & out

I’m a size queen, so over 7” will go to the front of the line. I’m also a sucker for a nice voice and an accent, especially Australian and European, as well as dark hair with pale skin and light colored eyes. Height is largely irrelevant to me, but there is something tantalizing about controlling a man much taller than me. As far as gender presentation, I greatly prefer masculine men.

I will only reply to quality men who give me thoughtful responses, including a detailed physical description. If this post is up I’m still looking.