Hey there! I'm looking for a long term relationship, ideally with someone fairly close to me (Germany/Saxony) but open to online if we match well enough. I'm trying this post because I feel like a femdom/kink aspect for me is pretty important in a relationship and it's easier to be up front about it here than on classical dating sites.

About me. I'm 27, work in tech and am usually pretty introverted (tho I warm up fairly quickly). I'm about 1.70m tall, 70kg, average/slightly fit body type, glasses for the nerd look (just kidding, I actually need them to see). I value personality more than looks for potential partners but I get that it's important as well that's why the brief description is there. I'm looking for someone somewhat close to my age (something like /-5 years). I'm open to share pics fairly early on; just not a big fan of including them in this initial post.

About you. Ideally based in Germany as well but as stated above, not opposed to online as well if we vibe. Level of experience is not important but you should know what you want and like or be willing and open minded enough to figure it out together. I value personality and us matching more than looks and if you like this ad then that's already a good sign!

My hobbies include bouldering/climbing, swimming and hiking for more sporty ones but I also like coding, gaming and digging myself into some manga and anime. Preferably yours align here and there so we can enjoy and talk about the same things.

Now for the NSFW section. I've been in power dynamics on and off for a couple of years, tho exclusively online so far. Kink wise I'm actually switch but leaning towards sub a lot; I don't need the dom side to be happy if the sub one is occupied. I really like the idea of giving away power, submitting and having my dominant counterpart "shape" me to a certain extend. I'm usually a good boy with rare brat attempts (but I tend to make them easy to handle) and I love gentle doms but can also be fairly masochistic. Biggest kinks are orgasm control, praise, humiliation/degradation, restraints but open to experiment and try things that excite us both. I won't do toilet play and anything involving permanent marks and severe pain. I'm also not looking for findom but for a relationship based on mutual trust.

If you are still reading and you like what you know about me so far and also think we could be a match then don't hesitate to shoot me a dm :3.