Growth mindset, EQ, health and personal development are top of the list for me. I’ve been developing this actively for over a decade (ask me how 😉). You’ll find me to be a good communicator and able to read your subtly shifting emotional states to serve you better. This is my first priority as a sub and I am very good at this in person.

I’m single, unpartnered, not married and I don’t have any kids. I live in west LA and travel frequently to east coast and SF Bay.

I have worked in executive management in tech for 20 years. Im successful, masculine presenting, confident, well dressed, well spoken and clean cut.

I’m a fitness and diet geek so I’m in great shape, lean, athletic and muscular with lots of greens and superfoods in the diet. I’m 6’0 175, white. Pics here https://imgur.com/a/iafTQ3a - I’m happy to provide full face pics as soon as I hear from you directly (just don’t want to post them out on the unprotected internets)

On the vanilla side I love scuba diving, skateboarding, history and anything growth mindset. I’ve travelled all over the world many times, Europe particularly. I like cinema and watch a lot of older late 90s movies and sci fi epics. Reading: David Brooks/ how to see a person and watching: Dune 2 and Disclaimer (domme vibes in both of these :). I’m a casual star wars fan and I have a dog that I can regularly be found rolling around on the floor with.

I’ve had many successful vanilla relationships but after a few years of dating dommes I’ve really come to prefer it. I have a huge amount of responsibility in my vanilla life, and I crave the female gaze, leadership and dominance. I like this in and out of the bedroom.

My ideal match: local to LA only, 28-40, fit / healthy habits. Leads the conversations, tells me what she expects and how I should do it, has done therapy / spiritual work high EQ. Can read my emotions and shape them to her desires. She has an intensity about her, I love strong eye contact and can hold it with her. Dominant from the start, I can feel this just in vanilla communication and it is really attractive to me.

As for kinks, I will wait for you to ask and I promise I will not fetishize you. I am sexually experienced and confident in my abilities. I know how to read your body and emotions to serve you, and I truly love doing it; definitely a pleaser this way. Not into feminization, cucking or humiliation, other than that I am open minded and adventurous sexually so try me. I want to be respectfully dominated and dedicated to serving you.

I know I like this type of partner and won’t disappear on you. I will meet quickly, communicate clearly and show up when I say I will.

FYI - I don’t use Reddit much ( no social media for me) so please excuse my limited post history and account age. Totally willing to verify however you like.

That’s it! Chat is open - I’m not rigid with my asks so even if you live somewhere else or aren’t exactly what I’m looking for, better to chat and see than never see what I’m like.

Happy new year to all the wonderful dommes who mod and contribute to this sub. I’m grateful for your leadership and clarity of how to interact with the community, I’ve learned a lot just reading.