Hey all, I'm a 36 year old, London based sub.

What am I looking for?

I'm looking for something IRL and would ideally like to find a monogamous, long-term relationship, but for now, want to just find someone to connect with and see how it develops. I'm not looking for something solely based around kink and would like to find someone who shares vanilla interests too. I would expect any relationship to be built on trust and mutual respect where consent and safety are always at the forefront. And lastly, on the kinky side, I would primarily prefer a bedroom dynamic, but would be interested for it to expand beyond the bedroom as we get to know each other.

A bit about me

I'm white, 180ish cm tall and just over 70kg, so a skinny/slim build, clean shaven, and DDF. I'm originally from London so haven't ventured too far in life. I have my own place and a stable job that I love, even though it involves sitting behind a desk all day. Hobbies include going to gigs, which I manage around once or twice a month, doing pub quizzes, and playing a fair bit of chess. I'm also into a few outdoor activities like cycling and long walks, particularly in summertime!

As a sub, I simply love giving up control and would probably fall somewhere into the category of a rope bunny and sexual service sub. I have plenty of experience in the role and am conscientious, attentive, and obedient.

Kinks and limits

It's list time! Some of the activities I enjoy are bondage and predicaments, face sitting / pussy worship, being collared, being gagged, teasing, begging, spanking and other impact play, anal play, wearing lingerie and stockings, and roleplay. This is a non-exhaustive list and I'm always open to adding to it.

Limits include age play, poo/pee, playing under the influence of alcohol or other drugs, leaving permanent marks (though anything temporary is fine), gore, and choking/breath play.

Who I'm looking for

I would like to find someone who lives in London and is aged around 25-40. You would ideally have some prior experience with kink and femdom and lean more into the gentle side of domination, though I really don't mind someone strict or with sadistic tendencies. Good communication is also really important to me, so I'd like to find someone who is open and honest.

Thanks for reading my post, if you're interested do send me a message and let me know a bit about yourself, I'd love to hear from you.