Hii 😊 31 year old submissive male with light experience looking for preferably in person play/dynamic but open to online. Lifestyle or pros are preferred. Located in Iowa, willing to travel depending on distance. Most likely any of the Midwestern states have the best chance for a Dom/sub dynamic to be established and thrive.

Ideally I am looking for this to develop into a mutual relationship where we share similar interests inside and outside of the bedroom.

6 ft, white, chubby, glasses, tattoos. In a phase of my life where I am bettering my health. Working on dietary choices and more physical activity. Willing to send pics as requested.

Physical appearance I dress mostly casual and nearly all of my clothing is black. I generally wear black graphic tees, black jeans, and weather dependent, a black hoodie. I don't have stylized hair or piercings but I'd closely align with what would be referred to as 'ALT'. I also have a preference for that in a partner, but only a preference. All people are beautiful in their own right. I relish in seeing those around me thriving on self expression.

I have no kids or current relationships. Have a steady job with a night shift schedule. Am always available to have a conversation for anyone who is interested.

Non kink me is a mostly introverted nerdy gamer that prefers staying inside for a cozy night playing some games with friends. When I get out I enjoy concerts (metal/rock), nerd Conventions, and going to the movies or shopping. I also enjoy a good book from time to time.

I'd love for a like minded person who also enjoy a bit of gaming and nerd culture. I'll gladly take you out for a concert, convention, or fun night out!

I quite enjoy a wide range of games on most platforms like Xbox, PlayStation, and Nintendo. I mostly play Xbox. I have an equally wide range of taste in genres from RPGs, linear story driven games, shooters, fun CoOp or multiplayer games. Even cozy chill games are up my alley!

I tend to play stuff like Halo, Fortnite, Spyro, or any recent release really. I generally will play anything that I might be feeling in the moment or something my friends are playing at the time. I'm absolutely interested in a new CoOp partner so if you've been searching for a 'Fit All Needs' sub, look no further!

You'd likely have several interests and hobbies yourself. As a potential sub and perhaps a relationship, I want to involve myself in what you enjoy! I want to know what excites you, what provides you happiness in your day to day life.

I'm also completely cool with us chilling in the same room, doing our own thing, checking in on each other every few moments.

Kink side of me is still somewhat new and exploring. I am pansexual with light experience playing with both females/males. I'm very much interested in giving oral, restraints, light impact, praise/degradation, edging, JOI, pegging, ass play, toys, worship, collar and leash play.

At this moment I have had some experience with JOI, CEI, denial, teasing, and toys with a previous Domme. Some of the toys used ranged from several sizable dildos and vibrators, butt plugs, vibrating cock ring, Lovense toys, pocket massagers, prostate massagers like the Aneros.

Also tried ball gag but didn't see much use at the time. One scene with a sounding starter kit as well but also didn't move on any more with that either.

I'm quite open to a wide range of toys to be used either by a Domme or myself. As they can accentuate play and provide sexual sensory in many areas.

Open to feminization/sissification, chastity, breastfeeding, group play and probably much more, but not required.

Limits to public, toilet play, weapons, permanent marks, blood, needles. Maybe more.

I'm very open to discussing and learning more from those experienced with a guiding hand. I am eager to listen, learn, and train. I have the utmost respect to the kink scene and don't take anything for granted. I value anyone's time and respect to the BDSM world.

I also understand Doms have kinks of their own so I'd also like to explore/satisfy urges they may have as well.

My ideal Domme would be somewhere along the lines of soft Domme/Mommy I suppose? I'm still learning what would be a good fit for me. Although I'm not opposed to a rough or slightly sadistic scene.

Physical attraction matters to me slightly, but I'm more interested in who you are as a person. The enjoyment you get out of life. I'm not particular for ethnicity or any other physical attributes. So long as we feel any spark of attraction.

I'd thoroughly enjoy a scene in which I focus all pleasure on my Domme, keeping her on the pedestal and the center of attention followed by a cuddle session afterward for aftercare. As that is as much important for my Domme as it is for myself. I believe that a scene/session can have great impact on a person physically and emotionally.

This wind down time to assure each other's feelings are validated and that we can be communicative to each other. It is my belief that a relationship and especially a dynamic is only as strong as the two people involved are willing to put into it. I would deeply care for my Domme, to be cherished, respected, and deeply ingrained on their instruction.

Other information you may want to know about me or where I align on certain topics.

Non religious and don't care too much to discuss religion but I have no ill will towards those that do. Likewise I don't participate much in politics but I do have personal beliefs.

Everyone should have equal rights, regardless of identity. Period.

My DMs are open should you have any further questions regarding anything in my post. Or if you have any feedback, I'll glady be receptive. Thank you for your time reading.