Hello! I am a nerdy subby guy looking for a gentle mommy type to find love. I am not big on a lot of dating apps, but lets try reddit. I am a 38 y/o subby boy looking for a Mommy type, or someone who enjoys the softer/nurturing sides of domination. I am generally more of a little at heart and dont necessarily like the harsher sides of domination.

Some of my day-to-day interests, I love love love to cook and bake! More so when there are other people to cook with or for. I am not the best at cooking for myself when I am just eating alone and usually eat like crap when it just comes to me because I am kinda lazy and dont want to do all that work just for me haha. (I do in in fact need someone to remind me that we have McDonalds at home) I also love to read. A lot of non-fiction, history, science, as well as fiction. Recently finished my PhD and am getting to catch up on some fictional reading and shows. I am a huge Star Wars fan, and am not picky with Star Wars, I love it all! Good, bad or ugly, it's all fun to me! I also enjoy watching movies or shows, and sometimes I enjoy "hate watching" bad movies or shows with someone so we can have our own version of a Mystery Science Theater 3000 and just talk trash the whole time. I love to play games. Board/tabletop/video. I just love gaming haha.

Kink stuff: I love the intimacy of D/s. These relationships require a lot of trust from both participants, and a lot of communication. It is an intimacy that I don’t think I will ever find in a truly vanilla relationship.

As far as what I am looking for, I tend to identify as more of a little. I am a responsible adult at work but I really love embracing my inner child. Not just to the point of having fun in life, but I want to share that with a compatible partner. I enjoy cute little rules. Help me make a cute sticker chart rules list that I can color and fill in and get rewards for bein a good boy! Call me a good boy!!! I love being cared for and I LOVE affirmations! I love being needy and giving and receiving a lot of attention and just spending a lot of time with my partner in general. I love helping my partner feel needed and taken care of. Cooking meals for them so they can come home to a warm cooked meal after a busy day! Or hide cute notes in random places so they come across it when looking for some headache medicine or for their car registration.

I am big on communication and want to emphasize some potential deal breakers. I am not interested in having children. No judgements for those who want kids, I just have too much anxiety I think for my own kids. I know how to manage my own anxiety, and generally do not need someone to help (though am always welcoming of a partners love and help), but I just dont really want kids to be impacted by that. I occasionally consume weed for my anxiety. Not always/not all the time, but occasionally. I dont drink as it makes me sick. I know this may be a deal breaker for some, so I thought I would throw it out there.

I think this may be a good start for a personal? Tell me your favorite affirmation to receive in your message so I know that you read all of this and I hope to hear from you soon!! ^{_^}

PS: I am interested in anyone who identifies as a woman. If that makes you uncomfortable or mads then I suggest you see the door! 👉😊👉