About me

Physical information

https://imgur.com/a/this-is-me-some-of-pets-4jjusys

The above link is a good way to look at myself, but to provide a text description of myself would probably be the following. I stand at about 5’7.5’’ (Five feet, seven and a half inches) With brown hair and brown eyes.

I probably weigh closer to one hundred pounds now and have a sort of lean fit going on with myself. I have at least some muscle definition on my arms and legs, my core could probably be better though.

I have been working out and trying and get stronger, mostly so I won’t struggle as much at work when handling animals! Shout out if you know what Calisthenics are!

My hobbies and passions

These day’s I do a number of hobbies, like shooting, archery (PS. You can see my compound bow in the imgur link), and some other outdoorsy stuff.

I am also a very big fan of video games and love the 4x game genre specifically stellaris! And my second biggest love is turning based and real time strategy games. So much so that I am learning how to make my own RTS game in Godot!

I am also an artist, drawing both on traditional mediums like pen and paper, and also digital art using my own tablet. I tended to draw anthropomorphic characters early on, though I have branched out to a few different things, with landscapes recently being added to my list of artwork. (ps. I’ll draw you too if you ask nicely)

I am weirdly passionate about my work, which is vet med, I love learning about the history of veterinary care, and all the techniques and everything that goes into it. As well as the pharmacology and anatomy of animals. And I use this passion and drive to learn as much as I can, so I can become a vet technician instead of what I am now.

My job

This will be brief, mostly because it’s my work. But the long and the short is, currently I am a veterinary assistant at an animal Emergency hospital, and I am using this to learn as much as I can about my desired field which is vet technician (think animal nurse). And as such I am saving up money to go to vet tech school to fulfill that dream but ask me about some fun stories and I’ll tell you them!

IRL experience.

Well, I’m afraid this is where I hit my first stumble, I have functionally been single since late 2020. And I have not really been able to progress much past the talking stage it seems. I did have two online relationships from reddit, both last year, but they ended for different reasons I don’t want to talk about. Neither of them lasted more than a month.

I am not a virgin, having lost that in the 2020 relationship mentioned earlier.

A lot of what I learned from relationships mostly came from me growing up, and having the words now that I didn’t then, and also learning to at least attempt to make myself emotionally available and identify my feelings and being honest with them.

Kink experience

Honestly, all of this came from self-discovery and like, and one online relationship that at least helped put some of what I liked into action. But the truth remains that I have had, very little physical experience beyond my own self exploration and my own erotica. What I did atleast enjoy when I either tried it myself or wrote about and then tried. I do like gloves, blindfolds, and pegging/ anal play. Atleast as like major kinks, my only hard limits for kink are anything related to more then one partner, and permanent chastity. Anything else can be discussed in private, and with a lot of trust having been built up…

About you

What I am looking for

What I want most is to be a connection, I want to laugh, have deep conversations, or just talk about our lives or ‘nothing’ at all for hours. I want you to be my friend first, and a romantic partner, and my domme. With everything coming in succession of each other. I also want to ideally find my forever person, with marriage and everything else being on the table with whom we really sweep each other off our feet (and end up falling on the floor with each other)!

I am assuming here that this will be a long-distance relationship for the start, before it becomes something in person and something I can touch. Unless you yourself also come from or visit Colorful Colorado frequently. Make no mistakes though, I do want something in person more than anything!

The non negotiables/ essentials

The youngest I will allow is 20, the absolute oldest is 32.

This is a strictly monogamous relationship, and I can not stress this enough, I do not like, nor want to share with my partner. I hope the same goes for you.

I also want my partner to firmly be a domme! I just don’t have it in me to be a switch, I don’t like doming at all.

The genuinely unknown

I am uncertain about wanting children. I am heavily leaning towards not having them (due to family history of fertility, my own medical issues, and outside factors like the world and such). But I haven’t taken them off the table either. To be honest and fair up front, I just haven’t thought about them yet. If you are child free or are on the fence and this scares you about my undecidedness. I do apologize, I just haven’t given it any serious thought. But I thought you should know up front.

My preferences

Physically speaking, I don’t have major preferences, I do lean a bit towards curvy or chubby gals, because there’s more to love and hold onto! Height isn’t a very big concern for me, though I do like it when I am either eye level with my partner or their shorter than me. So probably anywhere between five foot even, to maybe at most five eleven. I do like blonde’s and red heads, but they aren’t must haves.

Emotionally speaking, I would like someone like me, loyal, kind, and understanding, but most importantly, I want someone who I can build a life with, this means that communication is key, and the ability to listen and reflect on things is crucial. Cause I will be doing the same thing to the best of my abilities and knowledge.

I would be head over boots for a gal who is a mixture of maternal, a tiny bit possessive, and super nerdy.

Most importantly, however, I want her to be able to be herself, flaws and all, because your human, and your deserving of love and to feel safe and wanted. And I will do my best to provide the environment for you.

Kink stuff

What appeals to me the most, is if you’re a mommy domme. Even if I myself am partial towards pet play (with me being the pet). I discovered a fair bit ago, that I liked calling my partner mommy/mamma. Though by no means am I opposed to other kinds of Dommes, My second favorite is goddesses. But all of this is secondary to you being my partner.

Additional stuff I like.

I like gloves, like a whole lot. Mostly medical or latex.

I’m into pet play as stated earlier. Though I would only ever wear a collar in private in bed.

Pegging is something I’d love to try!

And lastly is bondage and sensory play! I love both!

Hard kink limits include.

Anything non monogamy. Like ever, at all.

Ruined orgasms. (Theres a whole story behind this actually)

Humiliation and anything inhumane/permanent.

Permanent chastity. (Some Chastity itself is negotiable)

Alright here we are, at the end. I thank you for your time, and don’t be shy if you don’t meet every single requirement. You are a wonderful and unique person! And its okay to not meet some things on here.

So go ahead and reach out to me! I’d love to chat and see if we mesh. Use the word Amazed in the start of your message, and because I provided pictures here, I would like some in return!