About me:

Visually I'm 5'10, white and somewhat skinny/muscular. I'm no greek god but I'm also not a complete bean sprout. A picture will always do more than words so here is what I look like. I'm introverted and relatively reserved although can be confident and chatty with the right people or when discussing things I'm knowledgeable about.

I work in software development and enjoy the constant problem solving. I spend a large majority of my free time rock climbing as my main way of staying active and in shape. Outside of that, I occasionally play video games, and enjoy watching sci-fi and fantasy shows and movies although I would say in general my movie tastes can't be trusted as I can pretty much enjoy everything. I go through on/off cycles of being very into reading for a few months each year as well. Usually it's more sci-fi or fantasy but my guilty pleasure is cheesy romance books because they are just so damn short and easy to read.

In terms of my past submissive experience I've mostly been submissive to others (men and women) online but have also met up to have a few sessions in person. So far that has only been with men which... Is a little weird for me as tbh I'm much more attracted to the act of being submissive than I am to men themselves so while I've definitely enjoyed those experiences they've always left something to be desired. In my post history you can read the story of my first of those experiences along with some much more NSFW pictures ;). I'd like to see how a similar experience with a woman may differ as I'd be able to enjoy both my submission and the physical attraction to who is in control.

What am I looking for?

To start, while I don't mind it, I'd prefer for something that does not revolve only around kink. I'd like to actually get to know each other and talk about our interests. Being submissive requires trust which can only really be gained through communication. While I am perfectly fine for things to start online I do wish for things to move towards an in person meetup. Whether or not that is in the form of a single one-off session or it becomes something ongoing only time would tell. Additionally a 24/7 dynamic isn't for me, I definitely have passions outside of kink.

Who am I looking for

Being active and healthy is something I value very strongly in myself. Ideally you share those same values and enjoy bettering yourself in areas you are passionate in. I prefer to connect with someone who is 20 or older, ideally located in Ontario, or open to meeting somewhere in between. While I appreciate online connections, I'm seeking more in-person experiences and a deeper dynamic of submission.

I want someone who is looking to explore domme/sub experiences with me and push me a little to try new things. I am looking for someone who enjoys being in control and finds pleasure in the pain, humiliation, and submission I'm willing to give to you. You should also be comfortable with calling and/or video calling and sending/receiving pictures and videos.

In terms of specific kinks and interests I'm generally pretty open to trying new things but I'm not at all interested in scat/blood/extreme pain or anything public. Some kinks I enjoy include impact play, anal play, bondage, short term chastity, degradation, praise, edging. In general I really enjoy the idea of being "trained" into a perfect sub or slut and giving someone pleasure through my submission.

If any of the above peaked your interest, please send a DM my way! Thanks for reading if you made it this far.
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