I'm Gretchen, nice to meet you. I've posted here before, but I’m back to see if my elusive slave is out there.

A little about me. I am married and in an open marriage(I’m Poly). He will gladly verify that with you if needed. I'm pansexual, but right now l'm more interested in a male slave. I am a sports nerd. I love watching football(49ers), baseball(Giants) and hockey(Blackhawks). But you don’t need to like sports for us to get along. I also love to read(Fav book is Steinbeck’s East of Eden, but now I mainly read romance to escape), I listen to podcasts...mainly about history(Stuff you Missed in History Class) is a favorite...and all kinds of music. Though my favorite band is the Foo Fighters. I listen to lots of country too. I love to travel and have luckily been all over the US and also different countries. My favorite US spot is Boston and my favorite international one is New Zealand. I also love Marvel movies and TV shows, all things Star Wars and Lord of The Rings.

I am 5'4 1/2" tall, have brown hair, hazel eyes and I wear glasses. I am a larger woman. There is a picture of me on my profile.

I am open to a lot of things when it comes to kinks. I like masculine men and feminine ones. I like men who will dress up for me if I ask, and ones that do it because they love to. I enjoy controlling orgasms, and using cages. But locking your cock up is not a requirement. I enjoy the trust it takes to control your orgasm from afar. I am not too good at degradation, I'm more of a nurturer. I may call you a slut or whore, but it's said more in a teasing and caring way. I really am looking for a slave to get to know. Not in a kinky, sexual way, but really get to know you. I want to be someone you can lean on if you need to. Knowing I'll be there for you and care for you. Really think about that before you message. Because a lot of men have said that's what they want, but it then just ends up being all sexual and trying to turn me into a kink dispenser. Which I am not.

Something that l've learned is that I really want impact play. I want to hurt you, then care for you after. I want to mark you with an ownership tattoo, when we get to that point. I want to peg you, whenever the mood strikes me. I truly want a live in slave, someone who is into being a service slave, and wants to be loved and cared for too. I also want to restrain you and tease the hell out of you. Someone described me as a Sadistic Mommy and I liked that. More I’ve learned about myself recently is I don’t want to have penetrative sex with my slave. I want to play with you and allow you to cum when I feel you should, but I have no desire to have you fuck me, I want to be the one fucking (pegging) you.

Kinks l'm not into are animals, watersports, and scat.

I prefer if you’re over 27. I am looking for someone near me in Wisconsin or someone who is willing to relocate if things go well. As I said I’m ultimately looking for a live in slave (but I am not a sugar mama), so please think about that before you send a message.

If any of this sounds interesting to you, go ahead and drop me a chat message on here. If things go further we can change to texting or using Discord to communicate. I will try to reply to all of the requests I get, but it really depends if I'm overwhelmed with them, whether I can or not.