M4F

I'm an open book so for any questions or concerns please feel free to message me, also please start with something detailed like a bit about yourself or questions in regards to what I'm looking for. It's hard to start a conversation from just being sent "Hi" or "Hey". Also fair warning, im not immediately a sexual person i want to get to know you as a person and when i know whats ok and what we both like ill engage in sexual behaviors but until that point i tend to focus a lot more on getting to know each other as people and romance.

SFW Who I am: I'm from New York Staten Island, 5 foot 6 inches and about 120 pounds with longish brown hair. Currently working both a full time and part time jobs while studying for my license in HVAC while living on my own. I'm a nerd who loves things like gaming (primary platform is PC a few favorites being Metal Gear Solid, Death Stranding, Resident Evil, Arma, Helldivers2), anime/manga (favorites would be Akame Ga Kill, Code Geass to name a couple), Old movies (Terminator, Starship troopers), tech (phones, PC's etc..) and history. Lately I've been getting into cooking now that I live on my own, so far I've been able to cook burgers, chicken cutlets, salmon, shrimp and eggs, basic stuff I guess but learning! I'm generally a goof and can often be clutz though I can also be very straight to the point and very goal driven. I'm also the type to love cuddling and being the small spoon. I also have a dark sense of humor basically following a quote the role of the comedian is to find where the line is drawn then deliberately cross it, I believe in laughing with you. I'm very easy going and very few things get under my skin. I'm also often a big air head and things like flirting or hinting can very easily fly right over my head so I very much appreciate straightforwardness. I believe in open honest communication and compromise. Occasionally for fun outside of lewd I enjoy crossdressing, again both for fun and also I just like the feeling of being cute though that aside in public, around friends and family I'm an average guy. I'm also interested in cosplay and want to try to get into airsoft. I'm also very much against smoking and use of substances, though I very rarely socially drink and when I do it's like one beer with dinner, if you do smoke I'm willing to work with it I just very much want to pretend like it doesn't exist.

SFW: What I'm looking for in a partner: I'm hoping to find someone WITHIN AN HOUR's DRIVE FROM ME (doesn't have to be exact but closer the better). To be clear when it comes to FLR, I'm fine with my partner making the final decision most of the time but there are times when I'd like my opinions or interests to be seriously considered. I want a relationship thats build on mutual respect. I'm looking for a serious MANOGOMOUS long term relationship, though admittedly I do prefer partners on the more thinner side though if my partners taller I'm totally cool with that and actually into it, someone who is also easy going and easy to talk to and willing to share our interests with one another. While I would love for us to have similar interests I never expect a partner to immediately click with my interests I just ask to be given the time of day and to have my interests treated the same as you'd want me to treat yours. While I would love for my partner to have dominant aspects, I'm not looking for a strictly sub/dom relationship. What I'd like is a loving healthy relationship where outside of the bedroom sub/dom stuff is more a tease and just for fun but more on that aspect later. I'd love to have a partner who would want to game with me and do nerdy stuff with, as cheesy as it'd be to say I'd love for them to be my "other half" so to speak. As stated previously I very much dislike narcotic use and smoking, being around weed I often feel physically sick so being with someone who doesn't smoke would be VERY preferable. I would also very very much appreciate a partner whose independent and doesn't need me but wants me.

NSFW: As stated by the title I'm a sub, I love the idea of being my partners "pet" or "property" basically just being theirs in general. I love the feeling that my partner has total control but in all honesty we'd talk ahead of time of what were mutually into and willing to actually do so while I may play the helpless sub it's just more for mindset and fun. A few of my kinks would be sissification, feminization, bondage, toys, JOI, TPE, chastity, some punishment/training, pet play, spanking, pegging, some degrading and I'm into latex outfits or things similar. Generally tight fighting outfits are a big turn on for me and also seeing my partner dressed up in a dominant manner is also a big turn on. Though outside of sex things like skirts, tight clothing or even tights and stockings draw my attention. As previously stated I do also really enjoy crossdressing both for fun and sex so hope to find a partner whose cool with that and would be willing to help me with makeup and what not! Ideally my partner would be totally dominant, simply because I'm not the most comfortable with being dominant myself. As for early interactions and sexual behaviors I don't normally like to take the lead simply because I don't want to come off as a creep or sex driven or anything of the sort, effectively I let my partner establish the rules and I abide by them, I just want to know what my partner is comfortable with and I'm more then happy to be patient! I don't want sub/dom to be a 24/7 dynamic, more so my partner would be the controlling dom in bed and outside of it it'd be more of a tease/playful aspect like being told to rub your feet or simple things for a chuckle.

Over all I'm very much hoping to find a dominant partner for something serious and long term. Someone whose willing to be a nerd with me and open to sharing our interests and hobbies with one another and someone who I can talk to about anything! Ideally I'd like my partner close to my age but I think I'd be ok with max a 4 year age gap, though partners older then me aren't a problem. Nowadays I'm working between 40 and 60 hours thanks to work but I do have reddit on my phone so I'll respond as soon as I'm able. Thank you for reading this far and hope I've answered any questions but also very willing to answer any others you may have. If you do decide to respond to this post I just ask you don't message me with simply "Hi" or "hey", please start with a little bit about yourself just to kick off the conversation! I am also comfortable sharing pics on request! Feel free to either message or chat with me!

Thank you, Hope to hear from you soon!