Hello there Ladies, Dommes, Mommies, Mistresses and however you nice women would like to be referred to,

As stated i am a 30 year old german guy - blond, blue eyes with glasses and a trimmed beard, 69 kg distributed on 1.70 m height, a slim-fit physique and the brightest smile, mostly being called cute rather than cool or super-masculine. Im willing to send some pictures in private.
I consider myself a very rational but empathetic and easy-going person, very cheerful and mostly spreading positive energy to an extent that mutliple people told me i give them "Golden Retriever Vibes".
I have various areas of interest, starting from typical nerd hobbies like gaming, watching series/animes/movies, reading and learning about scientifical subjects or building Lego, over psychology, politics, philosophy and mythology till cooking or (amateur-)crafting. Also playing electric guitar and keeping myself fit - at the moment starting parcour and martial arts - i can be enthusiastic about many things and would consider myself having a good general knowledge and being a bit of a "jack of all trades". (God; this sounds so arrogant and conceited - i am actually quite humble, i swear!)
This is all fuelled by my never-ending curiosity, which is also true for the world of BDSM.
I would best define myself as a switcher and experimentalist. Given the nature of our social norms, I have of course had most of my experience as a dom and have been in the scene for a few years now, but for about two or three years now my submissive side has been pushing through more and more and demands attention. Please don't misunderstand - that doesn't mean that I approach it half-heartedly... on the contrary, I always give 100% to every role.
So far on my submissive side, through one real-life connection, short-term online contacts and a lot of self-research, the following kinks have emerged (and as much as i hate lists, here it comes in handy):
Tease and denial, orgasm control, joi, edging, some chastity, anal/pegging, bondage, a bit of crossdressing/sissification, facesitting with breath control, hypnosis and probably a few more. I´m not too much into pain, although i accept it as part of the dynamic. I´m quite an erotic chameleon, adapting to the style of the other person a lot as i love to please. If i can tell you are doing/letting me do something that turns you on a lot i will most likely start to like it as well. I just love attention, giving it and receiving lots of it just as much as a bit of praise here and there; i might come across a bit needy sometimes but you can always tell me when it gets too much. Complete honesty is a key trait for me. As i said - just imagine your Golden Retriever impatiently waiting for you at the front door when you left the house - i should mention im not really into pet play; Its just about the metaphore here.
My limits include the typical things like blood, feces, illegal stuff and so on but also depend on what kind of dynamic we have. TO ALL DOMMES WANTING MONEY - look somewhere else..like really - im not into FinDom and i wont pay a Tribute or One-Time-Fee or whatever you come up with as long as this is online...i dont mind inviting you for dinner though. I understand the reasons behind a lot of you demanding it but i can explain it very detailled why i personally will never pay you.
We can go into more detail in person. For me this is anyway the most important part as a connection always takes two and only then we can actually see our individual vibe.
I want to talk to another genuine human first and foremost and only after this you being a dominant is important. I prefer long term dynamics way more than short term, real life ones over online ones but i am open to all of it. Verification will be provided by me and i expect the same of you before we start playing.
In that sense i hope to get to know at least a few of you better - Let´s enjoy each others company and have a good time! And to all the others reading but not interested, i wish you all a great Christmas time :)