So first posting on here, am hoping it wont be full of spam... have been on a couple sites such as bumble and alt (that was full of spam) as well as fet etc.

Thought i would do a short version. Be nice to find some that:

Person / human first, partner, then the rest. Some mutual interests (just started to learn paragliding, you dont need to) etc.

Someone who I come to see as a great person as well as Domme. Want to get to know you and they me. i.e. someone i would want to spend time with and them with me as well. someone i can look up to, respect etc.
Enjoys being a Domme, knows they have my submission but doesn’t abuse it. They enjoy taking the lead, but also listen to ideas/views.
Someone I will never feel its a chore to serve, but a pleasure.
I read somewhere, that we should both feel we have met someone we think we are punching above out weight.
Someone intelligent. To put it bluntly I would love to be able to have a decent conversation, even be able to really disagree on things, have a good mind and views.
Someone who enjoys similar things inside as well as outside the bedroom.

Single looking for someone compatible, brain as well as sex interests. The former is as important as the latter as is a connection.

Live west of london, travel in to london for various fet munches, have a profile there, but not sharing that with everyone.

Please note have been on various dating sites, so if you can only text or ask for money upfront will assume you are a scammer. First meets can be short but public area for us to feel safe and prove real.

Otherwise fairly normal, like cycling, walking etc as well as board games and indoor fun. Dont have children, have travelled the world some. Work normal hours.

Please note if we seem like a fit, will want a verification/face to face meet, somewhere public and safe.

Lets see how this goes.

Robert