Why you are going to like me: - At concerts I prefer standing and dancing over sitting, even when there are seats. - I enjoy socializing with all types of people and I am comfortable making social conversation. - I can go on and on about random topics that I love, and I seek out experiences that make me feel joyful. - I know which wine to order at dinner. - I will scratch your head and tell you that you are a good boy. - I like to make you squirm. - I am dominant in relationships.

Why I am going to like you: - You know who you are and are comfortable with yourself, while knowing that you are still evolving. - You have things that you are passionate about and you want to share them with someone, yet you are fulfilled with them on your own. - You are willing to be active in the kink scene, and you aren’t scared of new kink experiences, especially with someone you trust. - You appreciate when I talk endlessly about random factoids and topics that make me happy, and you actually pay attention. - You find pride in opening the door for me or getting me a drink. - You understand power exchange as different from being a bottom or just being kinky. - You are submissive in relationships.

In order to message me, please read this entire post and include: - Your age, location, and relationship status - Why you are interested in talking to me and why I might be interested in talking to you - An interesting question that you are asking in order to get to know me

Note that I am not interested in dating someone younger than 37 or older than 57. If you are outside of this age range, please don’t message. Don’t “shoot your shot” anyway or try to convince me that you are perfect even though you are not what I’m looking for. (I will report you to the mods)

Please, be interesting. Be engaged in chatting. Be willing to ask questions and get to know me. I’m going to do the same.