Good boy looking for a Domme whom I can cherish, worship and build enough trust with to fully submit to.
With me, you'll find that I'm a sweet, obedient, intelligent, well mannered, handy, a good communicator, and very attentive boy. Very much a golden retriever type. I'm very sociable and can get along with just about anyone but I'd say at the end of the day I'm more introverted and generally recharge alone. Definitely a Pisces and INTP if your curious 😅
I'm a Little on the older side, 32 years young to be exact, but I have zero baggage you'll need to worry about. No marriages, kids or extreme debt and I have a good career in aerospace engineering with a head that's screwed on right when it comes to adulting. I come with no drug, alcohol, or abuse issues and low trauma. My only secret being that I like being dommed 🤣
I have a lot of different hobbies and interests. I try to do a bit of everything as I'm a very explorative and curious person that loves learning and questioning the world around me. My interest can span anywhere from DIY engineering stuff, traveling, finance, technology, martial arts, gaming, fitness, or being a space nerd. I'm the kind of person that when I pick something up, I can get obsessive with wanting to become excellent at that thing and will live and breath it until I'm happy with my skill level!
I play multiple instruments, practice Muay thai, do the gym thing, but my number one hobby for sure these last few years has to be salsa and bachata dancing! I go most weeks and I love it. Music really heals my soul and connects with me I've found. I speak a bit of Spanish too!
Here are just some of the things I can offer / bring to the table:
- mechanically inclined. Will fix things for you
- mentally stable and sociable. Not boring
- dance lesson or dance partner
- chauffer (I'm an excellent driver, I've survived driving in Brazil and got compliments from the locals lol)
- good at research I can help with homework or work assignments
- my massages are the best
If you're still here: awesome! Now to move into what I'm looking for:
My ideal partner would be a genuine good person, a straight or bi biological woman who loves to play the lead role and enjoys having a masculine man around to be your obedient pet.
As far as looks go, I don't really have a preference for body type or race or anything like that. I'm a rare type of male where I kind of find attraction in the individual rather than an "archetype". Someone who does their best to just be hygienic, take care of themselves and isn't a total buzz kill to be around is more than enough for me. With that said, I have preference to more feminine presenting woman.
Please be drug free, disease free, and not an abuser of alcohol or abusive (marijuana is ok).
Ideally, I'm looking for a long term relationship but I'm open to any kind of dynamic or situationship so long as whatever transpires is based on a genuine connection, trust, consent and friendship. Even if an arrangement were to be short term in nature, I want us both to walk away healthy and happy.
As far as domme style; ideally I want someone who won't be afraid to be a little rough or mean sometimes, however I do prefer a more sensual, gentle type of person more so than a harsh person who barks commands all day and doesn't care about my well being. When the spicy and sultry is combined with praise and love, that's when I melt.
Now the spicy bits:
Being sub to my partner is something I've desired since I was a young teenager. I figured this out when a girl I liked in my algebra class would boss me around and manipulate me for her own causes all the while sexually teasing me but never giving me any relief. Then I discovered femdom and erotic hypnosis and It was all over from there 🤣 (poor guy never stood a chance)
I've since checked myself and meditated on the deeper reasons that I'm into this, and I've come to the conclusion that I simply just find peace in letting my partner have control and access over me. I think it creates an environment where I feel the most safe and can give the most of myself to them and it fills me with warm fuzzy feeling of being desired.
for most of my adult life I was too afraid to ask partners to domme me or seek one who did. But after a long term vanilla relationship didn't work out a few years back and some character / confidence building, I've decided to have the confidence to seek it out and explore.
So that's my life story lol.
Kink wise I'm into a variety of things. I've had experiences with a few short term dommes who were wonderful to me and introduced me to a lot, however you'll still be getting me with a lot of opportunity for "first time" exposures.
Things I'm into: - pegging - heavy bondage - chastity - edging/denial - milking - free use - light to medium pain - spanking - vac suits - latex - electric shocks / tens units - (secret) public displays
Hard no on: blood play, toilet, diaper, age play, illegal activities, minors, blackmail, or anything permanent or being forced to be bi. Anything not mentioned here is fair game with good communication and healthy respect for limits. I'm willing to be pushed into more harsh stuff, but with healthy negotiation and consent. Ideally we'd have a really good rapport built up with trust before I'd be okay with something that approaches my limits.
Your Age and experience isnt too important to me, as long as we're talking about a window between 21-45
Also NO FINDOMS. I'm looking to connect with someone, not lose my bitcoins.
Willing and able to travel to meet you if you're not near after we get comfortable with each other online. I know how hard it is to find people near you so I don't mind long distance as long as meeting is possible in the future. Will consider re-location if the connection is explosive enough.
Looking forward to becoming your good boy ❤️
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