For the last few months I've been getting thoughts about giving up control that were becoming more and more intense, up to a point where they made me write this post. So here we are.

I'm searching for someone who would like to take away control over sexual pleasure from me. This could be done in many various ways and I'm open to discussing other approaches if mine doesn't suit you. The way I imagine this would work is that I would be constantly given something like a schedule that would say if I get to masturbate during a given day or not and if so do I have to edge, for how long, do I get to cum or ruin etc. Or perhaps I could receive instructions every day for that particular day. Of course sudden changes to your instructions would be more than okay because you're in control.

This can even be extended into you giving me tasks that I have to do and similar stuff. I want it to be a lot of fun for both of us so let's discuss the details if you're interested.

This will be an online dynamic. It will be based on trust, but we can also think of other forms of accountability like for example photos proving that I have completed a task you gave me.

I'm located in Europe in the GMT 1 timezone.

I have a job that's my passion and I work a lot. In my free time I enjoy playing the piano and all the typical things like watching TV shows, listening to music, hiking etc. I'm open minded, eager and ambitious (look at me speak so highly of myself :p)

I'm dominant at work and in life, but the opposite in the bedroom.

My kinks include a wide variety of stuff and I'm always open to trying new things. My biggest kinks would be edging (but no longer than a day), JOI, ruined orgasms, orgasm control, nipple play, public play that doesn't involve others.

Anything illegal, involving blood or permanent damage is a dealbreaker for me.

I can verify that I'm a real person. I won't show my face though.

Does this sound interesting to you? If yes then please send me a DM or message me on Reddit Chat and let's get to know each other 😊