👤Summary about me

ASL: Male. 25. South Africa. Body: Stocky -> Larger Hobbies: Coding, boxing, painting, poetry, tree watching, binging series, coffee and music. Career: DevOps. Nickname: Bear

I live alone.  I am single.

🥰 My ideal domme

Age Range: 24 Body: No preference

Personality: I like both soft and hard dommes and can vibe with most personalities. I do not, however, get along with pity me Elmo people who are waiting for the entire world to pity them for every little inconvenience they experience.

Physical traits: No real preference. I am an assman (get it?) first though.

Domme style: Open to experience any style. However, my favourites are 24/7 D/s or 24/7 FLR.

I do not like findommes.

Misc: I like connecting with people, and would like to meet someone who isn’t just going to show up, give me tasks and leave. I would like to have someone who I can talk to via chat, voice and/or video calls etc. Essentially, within the D/s dynamic we should still be human and offer each other human connection.

👑 My Femdom Preferences

My kinklist image : https://i.imgur.com/JU4Ln1G.png

✅ Favourite kinks: Femdom, Anal, Orgasm control, Chastity, Cum and cum play, Public, Anonymous, Group sex, Free Use (me being free), Giving Oral, Ass worship , Cuckolding, Degradation, Humiliation, Spit, Whipping / Crops, CEI, Forced Bi, ANR

🚫 Hard Limits: Blackmail, Scat, Findom, Anything that draws blood like cutting etc., Needles, If you msg me add a key emoji to your first line, body modifications, ingesting watersports, gore, anything that can jeopardise my career.

🧸 My Toys: Dildos large and small, butt plugs, vibrator, chastity cage, enema bulb, lingerie, riding crop, rope, blindfold

I like a domme who knows she is better than me and that’s why I serve her. A domme who places her pleasure and enjoyment above my own and who can use the illusion of my pleasure to torture and control.

I am not a brat, but my domme must be able to put me in my place…choke my chain as it were 😛.

Ideally, my domme will control my orgasms and sexual pleasure whether by chastity or other means.

I have some experience in semi FLR’s, which included chastity, anal (pegging), humiliation, light BDSM, light feminisation, spitting, CEI and orgasm control.

➕ More about me:

🏠 I work from home. 🎨 I started to learn how to paint, but I am shit at it. 📖 I started reading some more to improve my vocabulary and grammar. 🎵 I am very dependent on music. I have to listen to music all day. I like rock, indie, folk, country, LoFi etc. ☕️ I am addicted to caffeine.

📺 Some of my favorite shows: - Seinfeld - Friends - The Office - Still Game - Two and a Half Men

👻Ghosting:

I HATE people who just ghost others. I’d rather explain why I don’t want to talk to you anymore and be courteous with the departure. Thus, if you are prone to or planning to ghost me, please do not message me.

💸 Scams:

I work in the cyber / IT industry. I am very aware of attack vectors and I am very careful and thorough. Just because you call me a good boy does not mean I am going to recklessly provide you with PII you can use to blackmail me etc. I will NEVER pay for any service, offering etc. I do not do findomme. I do not subscribe to anything (only fans, pro domme etc.).

Similarly, I won’t ask anyone for money or gifts etc. I will not ask anyone for personally identifiable information. If you wanna share pictures go for it, but there is no requirement. Especially face pictures.

I do not know you, you do not know me. I will not and you should not provide personal information like your identity, address, work information, private emails etc to a stranger.

👣 Next Steps

If you’ve read EVERYTHING I have written above and you feel like you could be the domme for this sub, please message me☺️

How to connect: Let’s start on Reddit and figure it out from there.

Verification requirements: Let’s just start with reading the post and reaching out.

Response time : I usually sleep between 06:00 - 14:00 SAST. Any time outside of that I’m rather responsive

💭 Feedback

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