Hello,

AMAB 33-year-old, 6’2” short dirty blonde hair with a short bread. Hazel eyes that go between green/blue. Currently working to get back in shape. Would say almost glow in the dark but I got a tan this summer. I present masc in IRL with hints of fem. When not at work I do present more fem. Personality type is ISTJ.

Landscape photography is a new passion of mine.  Venturing off into the woods to find a perfect shot while reflecting back on the week. Being one with nature and just enjoying the disconnect from every day society. Also, a nerd at heart love sci-fi and games. Star Trek > Star Wars we can debate this if you disagree. Games I play range from shooter, rpgs and sim racing. Currently working on PoE2 and plan to jump back into BG3. Stargate SG-1 is my favorite show of all time and have lost count of how many times I have re-watched over the years. Cooking has always been a way for decompressing from the day.  It’s a labor of love that I share with the people close with me.

I may seem reserve but once I warm up to people, I really come out of my shell. Just takes some light bribing of food. Honesty and privacy are huge for me. Why lie the truth will come out anyways. Also have random bits of knowledge that lives rent free in my brain.

Who I am looking for

Someone that wants to be friends at a minimum. Have discussions outside of kink going from the shallow end all the way to the deep end. If a fellow nerd, then it’s a huge plus or accepting of us nerds.  Texting, audio messages are awesome and we really have a connection then video calls. I found that I resonate better with a gentle/mommy domme. Allowing the walls that protect my inner self to crumble away.  Having absolute trust in the person that when it is exposed the hands will nurture and guide me down the twisting path. Firm hands that will let me wonder yet pull me back to the path. Trusting that the delicate flower won't wither away into the emptiness of the forest.

Age: 24-40

Location: Open to anywhere. If closer then possible meet-up later in time.

Kinks - Short list for now.

Kink: Nipple play, bondage, spanking/flogging, pegging, orgasm control, edging/denial and medfet to name a few

Soft limits: CBT, Chastity (short term use mainly), impact play, feminization (can elaborate more when we talk).

Hard limits: Anything illegal, blood/scat/bodily fluids, anything that’s permanent.

Safety, consent and trust are a major priority and after chatting first we both do not feel a spark then we let it fizzle out.  If you think we might be a match, feel free to send a DM and let’s chat.