Greetings, hello there! This is my first time making a post like this, so hopefully I do a good job. I'll be using the template this subreddit provides, so while it may all be written somewhat robotically, I really don't mean it to be and just want to make a good impression of myself. So let's get into the details! Be warned, I write a lot, so be prepared for a pretty large text wall lol.
What I'm looking for:
My ideal goal as I write this, is to find someone I can get along with very well, embrace and show my hobbies too, and if all goes well beyond a friendship, someone to truly fall in love with in the long term. As I am at heart a kind natured soul, I always have (and always will) do my best to be the nicest person I can be to those around me, and a lover is no exception. I very much value mutal understanding, respect and honesty for both present in a relationship. So long as we're both fair and honest to each other, there will likely be no issues whatsoever!
I myself have had a rough history with love, losing quite a few relationships due to getting dumped without warning (despite previous interactions with said lovers seeming all fine and good). This past history of getting dumped so much has now lead me to Reddit of all places, to try my luck and see if I'll finally find the true love I, and hopefully the partner I find, both desire.
About me:
As said already at the start of the post greetings, hello there. My names Luka, a 22yo guy born and raised in the Republic of Ireland. I currently work a part time job as a cleaner/cleaner in a Performing and Visual Art's Center. It isn't the fanciest of jobs, but it pays alright so I try not to complain too much about it. I'm 5ft 10 (177.8 cm)'s in height and have a rather slim body build. I've honestly never weighed myself properly at all but considering my body is rather thin, I'd say I don't weigh all that much at all. I am a kind and respectful individual (who has often been called a gentlemen by people). Always try my best to help out people in any way I can, and support those who are in need.
Hobbies wise, I have a rather diverse selection of them (which I will list out in detail of course), which range from the more common to the very much nerdy and obscure. Here is the full lot.
Anime: Got into Anime back in 2016. Been hooked ever since. I really enjoy Anime's with a heavy story focus, along with those filled with expansive and well detailed universes/worlds. Also into some Slice of Life/Romcom's as well. Favorites have to be Sword Art Online, Konosuba, Lucky Star, The Melancholy of Haruhi Suzumiya (and the spin off, - The Disappearance of Nagato Yuki-chan), Love is War, RWBY, Spice and Wolf, Joshirkau & Inital D.
Gaming: Been Gaming for nearly my whole life. Not very good at PvP focused games, but love Simulators, CO-OP focused, MMORPG's, Sandbox and Racing Games. Favorite games have to be the Elder Scrolls Games. That or Minecraft. Racing Games are a whole other can of worms lol.
Photography: Currently only a minor past time, as I need to get a proper camera. Use my phone for now. I love Landscape and locational photography. Nice Scenery of Abandoned/Historical places are my go too.
Walking: My main form of exercise. Never been into Gym or Running at all. A nice calming walk is fine by me.
Reading/Writing: Haven't had as much time to do either of these lately, but I do read quite a bit (Mainly Light Novels, Manga and History Books), as well as used to write a lot of Fan Fiction (Cringry I know) at one point. Been getting back into both of these hobbies more recently.
Music: Not really a hobby, but I like quite a lot of music. Not into most modern stuff tho. Favorite genre's are Classical, Video Game & Anime OST's, Techno, Trance, Progressive House, Old Rock, Old Country & Old Pop. I also collect Vinyl Records to a degree.
History Study: Not into all things history, just speific topic's I enjoy. Mainly relating to Industrial, Cultural and Transport History.
Nature/Horticulture: Having Grown up with parents who have a belief in Healthy Growing and Eating, it's naturally rubbed off on me. Not a current thing I do, but hope too in the future.
Cooking: Also, not currently doing this. But I really want to learn some proper cooking skills at some point, could be fun.
Trains/Railways: THE nerdiest hobby of them all. Always been into trains/railways ever since I was shown documentaries of Steam Locomotives as a kid. I study them in my spare time, collect rare archive recordings of them and work/tinker with miniture Model Trains. Currently working on a new Model Railway Layout in my room.
Cars: I can't drive, yet Racing Games rubbed them into me lol. Big into older cars/racing.
My Ideal Domme:
Please keep in mind that most of the criteria I list below is only what I would imagine as the 'fantasy', or 'perfect' vision of who I'm looking for. A lot of things are open to change and are flexible (like for example, you don't NEED to have the Body Type I've listed, it's just what I would dream of the most). Hope this makes sense (I'm not trying to be a dick at all I swear.) However, anything that I very much do not want at all from a person is highlighted below.
Age Range: Preferably 22 to 28.
Location: Open to either Online or IRL. Please keep in mind however that currently I cannot travel to other countries to meet people due to lacking a passport and also not having a very high confidence to travel far abroad yet.
Body Type: Preferably someone with a Curvy/Volumptuous figure. Height is not an issue for me. I am not into dating people who are fat at all, so nothing overweight at all please.
Personality Traits: As somewhat highlighted earlier, I'm looking for someone who has a kind and caring personality, who can understand my needs and wants, as I will understand theirs. Someone who can be there for me in hard times, as I will be for them. I prefer those who are more relaxed and laid back, but can be serious about matters when need be. Having a very much kinky side would be liked, but is by no means required. Also, it's not required at all that you like ALL of the same interests as me, but having shared/mutual interests would be appreciated. I woukd like someone to play video games with tho...
Physical Traits: Not much I can really say here, as I'm open to most physical traits. However, brown/black hair and glasses wearer would be nice.
Prefered Domme Style: Mainly would prefer a Switch with a Gentle/teasing Dominant Lean. May be open to more full Dominant however. Am not into the idea of being treated like a pet/being owned at all, that's too extreme for me.
My Femdom Prefrences:
This section will be a bit hard for me to write, as honestly a lot of the more NSFW speific stuff I am simply not very experienced with. In the past I have had E-Sex over video calls, but have never head actual physical in person sex. Not sure if that makes me a virgin at all, someone confirm to me if it does or doesn't mean it lol.
As a result, a lot of kinks I simply am either not in the nowhow of or am too inexperiend to understand. I will list at least the kinks I do know I am into rn, as there's likely a lot more I may like but simply have never tried (and am open to trying)
Kinks:
Verbal Teasing (In Private and Mildly in Public)
Visual Teasing (In Private and Mildly in Public. For example, wearing no bra/visible nipples through clothing)
Moaning
Minor Age Gap Play (Like Mommy Style age gap play)
Breast Fondling/Sucking (Never done it but am curious to know)
Kissing (Never done it but am curious to know)
JOI
Hard Limits:
Not into anything relating to Scat, Piss, Self Harm or Bondage.
As sort of mentioned before, my kinks would tie in well with a women who is somewhat kinky minded already, though as also already mentioned, this isn't a hard requirement at all.
And after well over an hour of me writing all this, here we are at the end. If you did read through this to the end then thank you, it's very much appreciated. If after all this you do have any expressed interest in getting to know me better, then please send me a DM and I'll give out my Discord for us to talk on (not too keen using Reddit DM's, and certainly am not going to share my Discord publicly here.)
With all that being said, again, thank you for reading and I hope you have a wonderful day.
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