About Me and What I'm (Still!) Looking For (SFW)

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Hello! I am a 23 year-old cis male, currently in law school (and planning to continue on that path for my career). I am also a musician, I play piano and compose music in a jazz and funk band that regularly gigs around my state. I also spend a lot of time restoring and rebuilding vintage instruments. Music is my passion, but beyond that I also love to hike, tinker, bike, and waterski, among other things. I enjoy grilling out, and am learning to cook more recipes, which I would love to make for you! I am Jewish, but I am not religious and do not care whether you are.

I split my time roughly evenly between Georgia, which is where I am originally from, and Virginia, where I am currently in school. I travel back and forth often, so if in-person is what you are looking for, somewhere near either would work. I'm also open to starting online and seeing where it leads.

In a relationship, I am of course looking for someone who is not afraid to take the lead (an FLR would be ideal), but what comes first and foremost is the connection. Someone I can go on late night drives with the windows down and the music up, who I can walk through the park with, and who I can talk all night long about history and music with, would be my ideal person.

NSFW Stuff

I don't want to dwell on this too much, because I think it is far more important that we click with one another on a personal level than that we align on an arbitrary list of kinks, but briefly, what I would love is a relationship where we do all of the cute, cuddly, wholesome lovey couple stuff, but beneath it all you call the shots and I submit to you.

I lean to the more gentle side but am somewhat flexible in that respect. I would love to try chastity/orgasm control (I love the idea of giving up control of something so intimate, it signifies such a large amount of trust), and love to give oral. I am also interested in pegging, have a mild foot fetish, and am just slightly bi-curious, but none of these are must-haves. I think that the kink aspects can mostly be negotiated as we get to that point.

What is most important in a dynamic, to me, is trust, where I trust you to take the lead and make decisions for the benefit of both of us, and you trust me to give my fullest effort to please you and make your life as easy as possible. With that, I believe we can explore anything and overcome anything life throws at us.

If anything I wrote here happens to catch your attention, please send me a chat message!

Looking forward to hearing from you soon.