I’m a man of many words but I’ll get straight to the point of what you need to know and see. Instead of giving you a description of what I look like you can see for yourself. I’m a 24 year old historian to be living in the Netherlands who is on a quest. My quest is to live life to the fullest and leave as few regrets as possible. Does this mean I’m participating of the unholy trinity of gen Z men which is day trading, drop shipping and course selling in an attempt to be a billionaire before 25? No that’s not what I view as living life to its fullest.

To me what is most important is what some people consider the little things. I consider them the real things. Fulfilling personal relationships with loved ones and doing activities that make me happy and fulfilled. Until last summer I've suffered from a visual condition which inhibited my ability to many things, which included studying. Now I'm freed from it and I want to live and grab life by the balls. I've been working my ass off in university this year and I'm planning and succeeding in graduating from university with great marks. I love what I do and besides my major history I love to cross fields and am voluntarily doing courses in religious sciences and sociology. I like to read a lot, which previously I couldn't do, because the world is so full of curious things. I like literary art a lot, stories can be art. But what really makes me happy is that I'm blessed with a great and intimate relationship with my immediate family. I've got great friends but my big brother has reserved the spot of my best friend. I hug and tell my parents I love them every day. I see my grandparents at least once a week and give them lots of love. I also work out and take daily walks, I view these more as selfcare and a way to enjoy music in the background than being a dedicated meathead. However I have been called "the small gorilla" so it has proven to give me results.

I’m happy and these last 4 months have been the best in my life and I’m looking forward to finding someone to share that happiness with. I want to find someone to truly be in love with and not just to be in lust with. I’m looking for someone who I enjoy spending time with regardless of kink. What my ideal find would be is someone who would want to take it slow with me, learn to laugh together and see what follows from there. The only disclaimer of why I’m here instead of r4r is that I think it would be a great bonus to already filter by D/s compatibility, but we can talk about that stuff down the line.

If you enjoyed reading this I hope you reach out to me or support my post and quest. Much love and have a great day!