Hello Reddit viewers! I’m looking for that special someone to share my intimate side with. That’s someone to submit to, yes, but also someone to lean on while we watch a movie or to hide behind when we watch a scary movie. If all that and tight hugs sounds interesting to you, then please read on!

I’m a 6’1” Caucasian man with dark brown hair, hazel eyes, some intermittent acne, and weigh 172 pounds. I’ve got just enough body fat that the general shape of my hips are defined and there’s a little indentation between a few ribs. In November I hit my goal weight from dieting and shifted into a muscle building phase. Loosely translated that means that I start my days by saying “ow.” I have poor vision which means A) we don’t need to spend money on blindfolds and B) I wear glasses near constantly. My smile is just a touch lopsided and my laugh always tends to be just a little too loud.

Here’s a peek on what that last paragraph is all about: https://imgur.com/a/SXfibuf

While we’re all here in search of a specific type of carnal pleasure, my earthly vessel certainly isn’t the only thing that I hope my partner is interested in. I’m proud of my ability to set long term goals and chip away at achieving them day by day. I can be opinionated on subjects I care about and a contrarian when the opportunity for a lighthearted argument crops up. On that topic I’m liberal, if you’re not I will argue with you frequently and it probably won’t work out. I tend to send messages before proof reading them then double send to fix my mistakes. I’m in my dream job now and attending grad school part time to get ahead. It drives me insane when people at work send me a vague message indicating that a problem exists but don’t give me any details on the issue. I have a big heart, but I’ve only got the romantic capacity for one person- that is to say I’m monogamous. I like to make my partner happy and I thrive off of seeing them get excited when we’re together. I don’t have a particular fashion, but I’m happy to pick one up.

In my day to day I love to cook, browse Zillow/realtor, watch small natural science videos on YouTube, and read. I make a point of cooking at least one new dish every week. Last week I tried to imitate a Brazilian steak house with picanha, pão de queijo, and veggie skewers. I don’t have a dish queued up for this week, so please shoot me an idea if you’ve got one! I’ll share pictures and my story of the attempt. My favorite type of houses are Victorian or arts and crafts from the 1880’s to 1930’s. Like 90% of my time on Zillow is spent looking for those and admiring them lol. I’m 100% down for long calls spent giggling over those old works of art. A lot of what I read comes in the form of web serials and fanfiction from various sites. It’s not that I don’t like traditional published media, I just enjoy the convenience that web forums offer.

In the bedroom I love being restrained. The aspect of being controlled sets little butterflies off in my tummy. Some things sheltered under the umbrella of ‘restrained’ are material restraints like collars, chastity cages, earmuffs, rope and non-physical restraints like rules and hypnosis. Beyond that I like a bit of anal play and I love making my partner feel good. I recognize that toys are my allies in the bedroom, not competition. Non-inclusive list of limits: scat, piss, blood, knives, permanent damage, bi, vomit, cucking, needles, and race play.

I’m looking for a lady between 22 and 28 years old within a four hour drive of Richmond, VA. The lovely lady in question likes to get to know someone before opening up too much of her private life. She has her own professional ambitions and is looking for a gentlemen to complement her life outside of them. She probably likes HG TV and thinks that renovating an old Victorian in a good school district sounds like a good time. She prefers to control the aux during car rides, and gets her way every time.

Thanks for reading my ad, have a great day! If you’re browsing, then good luck finding the partner you’re looking for here! If you’re moderating, thanks for keeping this place running! If you’re training AI, please leave me out entirely!