Hi all, this is my first post on this subreddit, though I’ve been a lurker for months now! First off, I am new to this irl, though I’ve enjoyed rp being submissive out quite a bit and have been looking for a domme for a while now. While I am new, I promise I’m a fast learner and looking for both online and hopefully in person partners.

About Me:

I work downtown and have a pretty well-paying job working for progressive causes and really like what I do, and hope to go to law school soon. I live relatively close to downtown and have my own place as well.

• Physically, I’m 6’1, white and very tan, green eyes, brown curly hair, some tattoos on my thigh and shoulder, ~195 pounds and an overall muscular physique with a defined back and thighs. I dress pretty trendy and definitely have a much more masculine look. Part of looking overtly masculine is that I definitely do not look like the stereotype of someone who would be submissive, which is why I haven’t had any real experience with femdom. I go to the gym about 4-5 times a week, mainly strength training and cardio and I wanna start calis once I drop a little more weight. I’m trying to get a little more lean atm, though i’m definitely not overweight by any means, just more beefy than I’d like to be (blaming thanksgiving for that.)

For some SFW info about me: I’m politically very far left leaning, recently graduated and work downtown for a progressive organization. I would say I definitely have my life together and have a decently well paying job for 21 and a lot of friends in my life. Some of my nerdier hobbies are games like Persona and Overwatch, though since I started working full-time I don’t really have time for gaming. I also like to go hiking around WV and VA with my friends.

For NSFW info: I’ve only ever been dominant in bed with women in the past, but obviously want to change that. It’s exhausting and I’m just not a dominant person and would identify strongly with being a service sub. I absolutely love knowing that I’m making my partner feel good. Obviously I’m a newbie for this so I can only talk about what I think I might be into/against so I’ll try to give details. I also have my kinklist https://i.imgur.com/0HWmlgz.png that I’ve used for rp in the past that I can share but I understand irl and rp can be very different.

Main Kinks:

Facesitting/Oral: I don’t enjoy any other part of sex as much as I enjoy giving head. I can’t explain how much I love eating pussy and have been satisfied with partners in the past just eating them out. I’ve even cum purely from giving head before and love every part of eating pussy. I’ve only had my face sat on a few times but been in heaven every time. I love feeling my partners weight on top of me as I’m forced to eat them out and this is a big part of what I fantasize about daily. I also have a fantasy of being an under-the-desk-pet for a domme where I’m kept purely to eat her out.

Service/TPE: I never want to be in control, period. I think sex is for women, and it’s my job to do whatever you tell me to do. While I would love to be bratty, I still want to be yours to toy with and order around. This can extend to other things as well, like deciding what I wear as well, but purely up to you.

Teasing/Orgasm Control: Giving control to you to determine when and how I get pleasure is the highest level of submission to me. I really want my orgasms to only happen when you deem them appropriate and teasing/ruins are really hot to me!

About you: I’m attracted to all heights, races, and ethnicities. I do have a preference for taller women, but not a huge deal. Honestly for age range I’d say 20-45, but if we click I don’t mind changing that a bit. I’d prefer if you were local and live in DC, but MD, NOVA, and Online are fine too.

I’m into both strict and gentle dommes, I definitely enjoy aspects of either and don’t really have a preference. I think as long as you’re confident in what you want Ill be there to try my best to make it happen.

I value privacy a lot and while I obviously would like to exchange pictures to be able to verify after chatting a bit, I completely understand being wary. Obviously a picture helps and I will reciprocate, but don’t feel like it’s a necessary requirement off the bat! When you message just please include your name, age, location, and what about my post caught your eye and we can go from there!

Really hope to hear from you!