About me

• east african originally
• 5 7” , thin-ish
• Want a family 
• I place a high value on intellectual and emotional connection, just as much as physical compatibility. 
• I have a weakness for chivalrous / protector  types who plan dates , can provide financial stability , I find it very sweet and makes me feel cared for/ supported
• personality: I tend to be emotional/ caring , nurturing, deeply loyal , I care about keeping stable emotional connection which to me means being understanding, honest and not shying away from conflict
• Im ideally looking for an FLR, that looks fully vanilla on the outside looking in, but where you fully let me lead behind closed doors. 
• I love the feeling of someone surrendering their control fully to me, like in tpe. The trust/ mentality that goes behind it is the most enjoyable thing for me, you making my pleasure the priority. 
• My favorite love languages are gifts and words of affirmation 
• not interested in giving hard punishments, willingly giving up of control feels the best to me… I enjoy giving praise
• I like control, i tend to lean towards the gentle domme/goddess style. I want you to be fully mine in and out

Location: Anywhere is fine, provided that one of us moves to be closer sooner rather than later bc being physically present in each other’s life is important to me

- Other Preferences : age range around, 25 - 45 , single with no kids, wants a family in the future , emotionally available , can give lots(!) of attention , generous and can provide for the both of us

- I prefer to not go into kinky conversation right away  but in general , I tend to enjoy gentle forms of domming, I’m not super interested in things that are very painful or humiliation.

• You must derive pleasure from giving pleasure and/or serving or this will not work. (giving only with the intention to receive doesn’t count). I understand this isn’t for everyone. I just want to be up-front. <3

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If you think we might be a good match I’d love to hear from you :)  , please include an introduction about you in your message , why you think we are compatible, what your ideal relationship is like/ what your main needs are, and what kind of life you see yourself ideally living in a few years .

(Disclaimer: not a speedy texter, esp since there’s always to be so much happening this time of year. If I dont reply theres a chance I havent seen your text, additionally reddit chat is super buggy so I've no idea whats going on most of the time.. besides that)
Can’t wait to get to chat, hope you’re having/had a good day!