Disclaimer I’ve almost exclusively dated and been with women for my whole adult life. I’ve thought about femdom for a while and lately I’ve been interested in pursuing a d/s relationship with a service sub. I am looking for something slow-moving with the understanding that I’m trying something new and still figuring out what I like and am comfortable with.

I‘m not sure when I first came across femdom, but I wasn’t extremely interested until I learned about chastity. Since then, it’s been a huge fantasy of mine. I’ve had some sparse online dynamics, but nothing has ever translated into real life. I’m looking to change that though; I‘m very interested in having a man under my complete control and focused on my pleasure. The thought of having a caged sex toy at my beck and call is insanely hot to me. I would like to take things slow initially on the kink side of things, and focus on getting to know each other. A connection where I feel respected and safe is very important to me.

I’ll be honest, I’m extremely selective when it comes to the men I’m attracted to. The main physical qualitied I’ve settled on so far are physically fit and preferably clean shaven (just not super hairy). In terms of character, honesty, respect and being openminded are at the top of my list (and of course being submissive and striving to please). I’m interesting in getting to know you as a person above all else, as I believe that will lead to a more fulfilling dynamic. The age range I’m interested in would be 22-32.

I understand that attraction goes both ways, so if you’re interested in a very feminine presenting woman then we wouldn’t be a great fit. I’m 165cm, around 61kg, blue eyes, shorter brown hair (sort of a mullet currently), lots of tattoos. My style is alternative I would say, but it changes frequently. Some days I can be very butch and masculine dressing, others I lean more feminine, often with a goth aesthetic.

I really prioritize communication, consent, and connection. I’m very in tune with my emotions and I would like someone that is as well. I love talking about art, cars, and dreams. I’m also very keen on new experiences and adventures.

If you are interested, please send me a message, the more sincere and detailed the better (the amount of copy and paste responses I get is exhausting). Additionally, if you’ve read this, please specify if you prefer rocks or sticks in your message. I am also fully prepared to verify myself as well as send a picture in our initial messages and expect the same from you.

I look forward to hearing from you ✨