Greetings! I hope this finds you well. Please don't mind the weird title.

I was lucky enough to meet some lovely people on here before, but things would always fizzle out, so here's another attempt.

About me

My name is Val and I'm from a small town where I share a flat with my three cats. I'm a dreamer above all, very much an introvert, and often feel like I don't quite fit in. Still, once I connect with somebody I'm chatty, affectionate and even surprisingly witty at times. I'm passionate about D&D, roleplaying, storytelling, art/DIY, and birdwatching (I especially love crows). I like cozy nights in, exploring the woods, tea, thunderstorms and anything strange and spooky.

Here's what I look like. I'm a trans man, pre-everything and still very feminine. Please be okay with that. I hope to transition eventually.

The kinky stuff

When it comes to BDSM/kink I'm neither super experienced nor totally clueless. I've dabbled in it, both online and offline, but unfortunately never found the right person for more in-depth exploration. I need a deeper connection and shared interests outside of kink first. I'm looking for both a close friend (or even romantic partner) and a Domme.

Due to my limited long-term experience I'm a bit of a wildcard as a sub. I have been called a brat before and tend to be fairly playful when I get more comfortable, but I can also behave if preferred :) I hope to find someone to really explore and grow with. I'm more comfortable discussing specific kinks and the more spicy details in private, but to summarize, I enjoy both praise and some degradation, light(-ish) pain and certain elements of pet play and primal play. I'm also known to be a bit of a monsterfucker

About you

Ideally, you live close enough to meet up in the future. Ideally. I know the chances of finding someone near me are low, but it's important that you're at least up for occasional calls/real-time chats. I sometimes struggle with purely text-based communication and would love to hear your voice.

I get on well with people who are creative, nerdy and have a sense of humour, and value clear communication and empathy. Especially if they're fellow introverts who understand my need for alone time.

Please be over 25!

I'm mostly interested in women, hence why I'm posting on a Femdom-themed subreddit in the first place. So, due to the overwhelmingly male response to my last post, I'm dropping the '4A' label. It should go without saying, but trans women are very much welcome (and encouraged!) to reach out.

My old ad from a year ago is still up and might offer some additional insights, in case you're curious. Please don't hesitate to say hi if anything here caught your eye! Until then, thank you so much for reading and take care!

Hope to hear from you soon :)

Val