Hey! Thanks for checking out my post, this might be a bit of a long one and there’s probably a 50/50 chance you’ll fall asleep by the end of this post and caffeine may be necessary but, I want to put quite a bit of detail into this, so you get to know a bit about me as a person and exactly what I’m looking for.

General Info

• I’m 19 years old and I live in Europe.

• I’m a university student and I study music, it’s been the only thing that I’ve wanted to completely pursue so it was a no brainer in pursuing a career in it. It’s my main passion and I’m aiming to be a guitar teacher. Sharing and teaching music is so personally and creatively fulfilling to me. I play a few instruments and am into a-lot of genres, so if you ever need recommendations I’m your guy, and also vice-versa I’d love to hear your recommendations. I’m also very into reading, I specifically love any book that’s devastatingly sad and will make me question life for the next few days. So please I’m begging for sad book recommendations at the moment because I’m getting so normalized to them now that it’s getting hard to top the previous one. In general I’m quite experimental and that sort of goes into cooking as well, specifically dishes from other cuisines which I try (keyword on try) to recreate to varying degrees of success. What would you say your favorite cuisine is?

• I bounced back and forth with posting a selfie cause it’s just so much easier if you know that you find me attractive before you message, but I’ve decided against it at the moment. However, I’m very happy to send you a pic on request - just shoot me a message and we can exchange pics. For now though my description will have to suffice: I’m 5’10, white,  70kg, medium length dirty blonde wavy hair, blue eyes,  skinny/lean with a bit of muscle, have ear piercings . I’d say my best feature is easily my hair but I’d say I’m overall I’m quite an attractive guy if you’re into a little less masculine presenting looking people. As I said I’m definitely not the most masculine looking, so if that’s your thing you probably won’t find me attractive. I’d describe myself as falling into the indie category both in looks and overall style. 

• I’ve been into kink since I was 15, since then I’ve learnt quite a lot about safety, consent and how to stay safe online and in these spaces. As well as having both online and in real life experiences along the way. I’m nowhere near an expert, I still have lots to learn and I’m still very young and still fairly new to the community but overall I’d say I am quite knowledgeable on kink/femdom. I would describe myself as a sub leaning switch, possibly a 80/20 or 70/30 split. I’ve had both online and in real life experiences with femdom/kink, these were all FWB casual relationships. I always found the idea of submitting to somebody else and them being in control very thrilling and exiting, I love the vulnerability aspect of it. When I discovered it when I was younger it was a bit of a lightbulb moment and I didn’t fully understand it but now being more knowledgable in kink it’s a part of myself that I cherish. 

• Personality wise: I’m quite sassy, witty and sarcastic, that’s all in good spirit though and disappears when it needs to  - I promise I’m very well behaved in other areas. I’m quite an ambitious person - I’m really dedicated to my goals and what I want to achieve. I’d definitely describe myself as an extrovert, I love talking to people, social situations and making new friends. (Although I can be introverted). 

What I’m Looking For

• I’m looking for an online casual FWB type of situation, I want to preface this by saying I want to have a friendship  and talk and get to know you outside of kink. 
• I’d like to talk (non sexually) at least every other day. 
• I’m looking for somebody between 18-32,  any older I feel like we wouldn’t have too much in common and struggle to talk.
• Experience isn’t essential, but if you’re not experienced I want to take quite a bit longer with the initial talking stage just to make sure we’re both fully comfortable and ready. If you think we’d be a good match don’t hesitate to shoot me a message though :)
• Preferably in Europe for timezone reasons, but again if you think we could work well together then I’m sure we could try and figure something out.
• I really value: kindness, patience, a sense of humor, clear communication and possibly someone who can match my sarcasm ( but that may be impossible haha)
• Somebody that’s willing to verify and call/FaceTime. 
• I’m more into a gentle-domme that can be very harsh if I misbehave. 
• Somebody left leaning please. I won’t be able to get along with you if we have polarizing moral opinions. 

Kinks

I’m not going to go into major detail here, I’d like to talk about it a bit later on when we talk but I do appreciate kink compatibility is an important aspect of any relationship. 

As cheesy as it sounds my main kink is pleasing my partner, if I had to describe why I’m into femdom that’s the answer I give. Your pleasure over mine, I want nothing more than to make you feel worshipped and powerful.

Other main kinks I’m into include: Anal/pegging, denial/orgasm control, spanking, tasks, showing off, worship, praise, light humiliation. 

Some of my limits include: Forced bi, blood, scat, vomit, permanent harm.

In terms of experience I’ve had 2 online dommes which lasted for around 3 months each and an in person FWB where we experimented with some femdom play. All of these have happened since I turned 18. As a sub I'm very obedient and I'd like to think I'm a good listener as well.

I’m 100% sure I’ve missed some crucial info but that’s all I can think off at the moment, any questions don’t hesitate to ask! If you feel like we could be a good match or just want to talk could you please include the following in your message: Basic info (similar to mine), what caught your eye about my post, why you think we could be a good match, a bit about your relationship/experience with kink and most importantly your favorite musician haha. 

Thanks for reading :)