I’m an average 38 year old guy. College educated, professional, hold a leadership position in my organization. And all day long, I’m the one in charge. The one in control. And all day long…I really want to give up that control.

Admittedly, I recognize that I can’t give it up all the time, in every circumstance. But I need to find that outlet…that opportunity to have someone else say “relax, I will tell you what to do now.”

I’ve found that I’m fairly submissive in the bedroom, and have a wide range of kinks that I would love to explore. Ideally, someone who is local enough to actually meet in person on occasion - when family, work, and life don’t intervene - would be ideal. But I’m also not needing to rush into something in person. I want to build a rapport with someone. Honestly, I can’t imagine doing anything sexual with someone I don’t have a level of friendship and trust with.

As to what specifically I’m looking for…that’s a good question. Certainly someone with a dominant streak. Hopefully someone open to exploring kinks with me. I’m less concerned with age, race, body type, etc., as it’s really about the personality (now if you’re like not even old enough to drink, that might be a problem, so let’s say at least mid 20s for age!) Honestly, I’d love an older BBW type; but I’m not picky! Like I said, it’s about the personality and the ability to maintain a friendship alongside the dominance.

Finally, a bit about me. I’m 5’9”, 220 lbs, and kind of that “dad bod” physique. My home life can be best described as “complicated”, and i know that can cause some concern, but I think it is something we can discuss and address. I have some hobbies (mostly music based) that keep me busy some evenings. My work schedule is fairly set in stone, but some days it’s quiet and I can chat all day, but some days it’s hectic and I can’t even check my phone.