Hey there! I'm Matt, a 29-year-old tall, blue-eyed Irish guy (6'2") living in North NJ with easy access to NYC. And I have intentions to move there at some point next year. I work in Midtown certain days and remotely the rest of the week. I’m looking to connect with a dominant, intelligent, and kindhearted woman who is willing to take control. If you’re someone who values both the mental and physical aspects of a dynamic, I’d love to chat and see where things might go!

A Bit About Me:

I'm a fan of all things sci-fi, love sushi, coffee, and beer, and play guitar in two bands. Recently, I've been getting back into watching shows and gaming. I’m pretty active and have been making cardio and working out a priority. I enjoy concerts, karaoke, dive bars, and arcades (especially DDR). Music is a big part of my life, so feel free to talk bands with me—I won’t shut up about it. I’ve also started exploring travel, with Ireland being a favorite recent trip.

Personality-wise, I’d describe myself as down-to-earth and calm but with a chaotic good streak. I’m often the supportive friend who’s there to help, but underneath, I want a partner I can truly worship and adore. I’ve had experience with Mistresses and Doms before, and I’m eager to explore that side of myself more deeply.

More pictures available upon request but here is me at some recent gigs: https://imgur.com/a/pictures-of-me-yqawwCe

What I’m Looking For:

I'm seeking an FLR, where the power dynamic is clear both inside and outside the bedroom. I’d love to find a smart, confident partner who can take charge and isn’t afraid to speak her mind. I’m looking for someone who’s not just into physical and verbal exchanges but enjoys the mental and emotional side of a connection too. Ultimately, I want a dynamic where I can serve, adore, and make my partner happy—not just through obedience but by learning what she loves and providing it regularly. Important to note, this does mean I am a doormat, I will stick up for myself if a situation calls for it.

I’m open to a mostly monogamous, romantic relationship but also willing to explore casual play and see where things go. Whether it’s being on my knees, cleaning in a maid outfit, or taking whatever position you want me in, I’m here to please.

Kinks & Interests:

Some of the things I enjoy include:

• BDSM, pegging, and body worship (especially ass)
• Being collared, pet play, rope play, and impact play
• Power exchange, mental domination, and roleplay
• Humiliation, acts of servitude, and wearing panties
• Choking, gags, blindfolds, and more (including piss play)
• Acts of servitude, make me be the one to get the next round, help you or your friends. (I will probably offer anyway)

Power exchange and the mental aspect of submission are my favorites, but I’m open-minded and love trying new things. I also have experience with erotic hypnosis (from my college days as a ‘tist), and while I’m primarily submissive, I don’t mind switching on request if it’s something my partner desires. I’m also a big fan of physical affection like cuddling and holding hands.

What I’m Looking For in a Partner:

A woman who’s smart, confident, and enjoys taking control. Someone who’s not just looking for a submissive partner but wants to connect on an emotional and mental level as well. I’m looking for someone kindhearted and down-to-earth who’s willing to engage with my interests and let me adore her completely.

I’m primarily seeking an in-person connection but am open to discussing different possibilities. Would prefer meet up and hang to see if we vibe before any type of play. If any of this resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you and see if we vibe! Feel free to reach out, and let’s chat about what we’re both looking for.