Hello, kinky people!

I am a 29-year-old, single man living in Poland. 175 cm tall and weigh 77 kg. I have short, brown hair, brown eyes, and some facial hair. I have a slight belly that I am working to get rid of, but I do not look very chubby overall. I understand if it is a deal breaker, though. I can send SFW selfies to show how I look.

Looking for a fun and consistent online dynamic based on trust, good communication, and, of course, kink. Meeting in person would be great too if we happen to live nearby and we click well enough. My age preference is 20 to around 35 y/o. I am personally not into BBW.

I am quite introverted, but I can become talkative if I feel comfortable with someone. I am empathetic and try to be helpful whenever I can. Definitely more of an indoors person, which fits most of my hobbies and interests. I like solving problems in creative ways and learning new skills when I need them. I do some 3D modeling to design various parts for 3D printing, and I also know how to do amateur photo and video editing. Besides that, I like to watch YouTube, enjoy a TV show or a movie from time to time, and I very occasionally play video games. I have a bachelor's degree in engineering and a pretty good job. I am overall a decently functioning adult :)

I think what makes me "less intense" is that I do not see kink and submission as an entire lifestyle but more as a fun addition to life. I am not extremely clingy, and I do not need constant attention or micromanagement. On one hand, I have days when I am very eager and really into it. On the other hand, there are also times when I might not be in the right headspace or just simply not feel very kinky or aroused. And, of course, everything in between. That doesn't mean that I will randomly refuse to play or make excuses to disobey, just that I will not always be at my highest energy level.

It is also not an issue if, for example, you are not in the mood or have other stuff going on. If necessary, we could take a break for a week or so. Just chat more casually as friends for some time, or maybe play more moderately. I would never want a dynamic to feel like a burden or obligation.

I love to experiment and explore new things. I have many kinks, some of them being tasks, rules, obedience, joi, edging, orgasm control, humiliation, impact play, light cbt, feet, body worship, cei, using toys, pet play, spit, human chair/footstool. There are more, but I do not need to fulfill all of them, as good communication and compatibility are more important to me. Also, as an obedient sub, I would be there to serve and entertain you, so focusing on practices that interest you the most would bring me the most joy. I have some toys and accessories, and I am open to getting more.

I value privacy, and there are aspects of my personal life that I would not want to involve with kink. That is why 24/7 play or complete TPE is not possible for me. That being said, the idea of completing tasks and following rules is something I find very exciting, just with some boundaries set in place.

As far as experience goes, I do not have much of it, either in real life or online. I have been to a femdom-themed party twice. One of those times I served a Mistress I met there for the duration of the event.

My limits include findom, blackmail, excessive pain, permanent injury, anything that negatively affects anyone, showing full face in kinky photos or recordings. Also not looking for a romantic relationship.

I hope we can get to know each other soon :)