Please note: I am posting this under a newer account. I have been on Reddit for a while under a different user name. This fits more with who I’m evolving into. :)

I am a short, bbw, white, 51 years. I seem to be eternally searching. Are you out there, my sweet boy? I’m looking for someone who LIVES to adore his Domme. He LIVES to see her smile, to make her life a little easier, even if it’s just by refilling her glass of water.

I’m looking for someone who is looking for long term, flr, leading eventually to marriage. I want my forever pet! This doesn’t mean we are planning a wedding two weeks into our communication.

While I want your devotion, I also want to EARN it. And to do that we have to have trust between us. To gain trust we must have open and honest communication, always. Lies are a big trigger and red flag for me. I will stop all communication if I catch you in a lie.

I don’t want to pull conversations out of you, and I expect more than two word answers. If this is not something you are capable of, please don’t waste my time or yours.

I lead with love and kindness, however, I will punish if I need to. I have a gentle domme vibe, with a sadist streak.

As I said above I’m looking for long term/flr, but that doesn’t mean you don’t have a voice. You may be yourself, as long as you behave appropriately ;)

I’m looking for:

Age: 39-55 (firm) (Preference are white males with dark hair.) Time zone: Eastern. Willing to consider others in the US, if the connection is good. *US ONLY. I want this to be online to start with a reasonable timeframe for a first meet. Body: slim or muscular. Slight dad bod ok Habits: No tobacco. (Firm.) Occasional drinking ok. *You must be looking for long term, leading to flr/cohabitation and possible marriage in the future. You must be able to hold a conversation. If I feel like I have to drag conversation out of you, I will stop the vetting process. You must have gainful employment and a vehicle. We will likely meet at a halfway point as we grow our connection.

Please be prepared to photo verify. Any responses must be thought out. I will not respond to “hey, hi, how r u” etc. I also will not respond to strictly sexual responses. I want to click on a vanilla level first.

Thank you for taking the time to read this! ;)