Hi there!

I am 25 yo switch/sub, and I am looking to connect with some Dominant counterpart with which I can express my submissive side.

I am from Italy. I am looking for something online, which maybe can escalate IRL (if we really click and the distance permits that). What I am exactly looking for could be:

• a play partner
• a friend
• a Domme
• someone to have a nice chat with

What I can be for you instead is:

• a play partner
• a friend
• a submissive [- a fellow switch, if that appeals you]
• one to have nice chats with and talk about kinky stuff, interesting nerdy topics, deep stuff and just life

About me (in brief)

• I am 25 yo and I am from Italy
• In my daily life I am a professional, I recently graduated and right now I am pursuing my career. I invest a lot in that because I like what I do. I would consider myself ambitious
• I have a bunch of hobbies and interests, all in a way or another "nerdy stuff" (not necessarily in the stereotypical sense, but more in the sense they may be niche stuff and I like to deep dive into them). Said that, I hate to make a list, especially there
• I am nearly 1.80m tall, neither slim neither chubby body type (I keep myself in decent shape, but definitely not a sporty person), dark blonde/brown hair, blue eyes. I usually like to present myself well dressed and clean
• I could be described as a mental person and as an introvert. To strangers I often appear formal and a bit detached. Once you know me (and I trust you) I will probably (slowly) introduce you to my own world, made by the things I like, my thoughts and many salty jokes. If you know what it means, I am an INTJ (without taking it too seriously)
• The things I love the most are my moments for myself and deep talks. Not much a fun of loud places and people who do too much pointless small talk

About me (kinkly)

Kinkly, I am a switch. I recognise my "default attitude" is the Dom, but I can, I like and I want to submit too. As an attitude I would say I am a bit of a brat, not much in the sense I violate rules (quite the opposite instead, I am eager to obey and I will do anything for a "good boy"), but more in the sense I like to tease and I occasionally can look (respectfully) assertive. Usually, when I submit it's because of a mine intentional choice (sadly or happily, driven by being horny), or because you found those mine 2-3 buttons that make my brain shut down. I hope we can build a bit of a connection so you can find them.

My main kinks are: orgasm control, edging, tease and denial, spanking, hit play in general, some pain in general (if put in the right mood I can become a little masochist slut and beg for it), sensation play in general (I like creative ways to tease the body), ass play, bondage, discipline and guidance, tasks and orders, worshipping, doing my best to be a good boy and please you.

Some additional stuff I want to mention but it's more delicate is: chastity (I like the idea of an extended orgasm control, I don't have a cage), pegging (love the idea too, but sig... my ass isn't used to that much action), rules and control (no TPE but after a while I may be willing to explore some power exchange), a bit of humiliation and degradation (i may like it, but I seen I really appreciate it only when I really have a connection with someone).

Limits: extreme pain, blood, permanent, any body liquid (except spit and cum, that instead could be added to the kinks), strong degradation and humiliation, extreme pet play, age regression, findom, privacy, blackmail, interfering with private life, sending immediately NSFW stuff and/or face pictures (both are things that require a level of trust), text only (to keep trust strong I would like we could prove each we exist, we are real and we are not just a wall of text).

What I am looking for (and what could I offer)

As I said in my intro, I am looking for a Dom (or switch) counterpart to connect with, have nice talks, have sex chats, maybe setup Dom-sub dynamics and - maybe maybe - meet IRL if we really click and the distance permits us.

Ideally,

• Your age is between 20-30, better if close to mine (25). Please, be on or above legal age for your country
• You are located in Europe, even better if in Italy or close to it
• You are a person who has your own life sort out, better if you are doing something you are fierce about (it can be study, a job you like, a project, a passion, etc. I guess this will help connect with me). Great if you are somewhat ambitious
• You are a person open to dialogue, who likes to talk, listen, discuss, share ideas and go beyond the superficial
• You are a Domme or a switch with a great Dom side. Gentlish or a bit strict are both fine, until you are respectful and open to dialogue

(Note: all those are just "ideal" things, they are not a checklist and regardless of how many boxes are "checked" what matters to me is the person as a whole)

a few final (more or less serious) bonus points to choose me and not another one among the 1000

• I like to dress shapely and be "on poin", so you may often get pics of how cute is your good boy
• Since I am a bit of a nerd and I have my pool of interest I deep dive in, once we know a bit you will receive from me many nice random facts you may not be aware about
• kinkwise, I am a bit of a whore and when you find and click my 2-3 buttons you will see how this serious and a bit stubborn figure can become a little needy thing you can pilot like it's a videogame
• I am a person you can talk with and not just play, who loves introspection and deep dialogues

If you reached here, thank you! I am happy I caught your attention. If you want to go further and know me, I will wait for a your Dm here on Reddit (I may not answer immediately because of time zones and job, but I will reply you as soon as possible). Hope to hear from you!